Not all ladies are that way. In the future you might ask the provider when you are considering booking an appointment with her if she would be a reference for you to see other ladies. That might help you decide on whether or not to book with that lady.

Some ladies on here will give references but for an additional price, or only if a review has been written, or for a limited time (3-6 months). Some will not give references at all.

Even if a lady says she will give you a reference, she might not. Some providers on here are cock blockers and will wait just long enough so the other provider will miss out on your business because she held out on the reference, or she may offer you a lower rate to see her instead, etc. Lots of games.

I am happy to provide a reference to other ladies for a limited time unless I've seen him more than a handful of times (because clients can turn bad quickly or they're good with one lady but bad with another), or I will put the guy's username/handle and the date/year I saw him on my OH2 profile (with his permission of course). He can just give the lady the link to my profile and there's my reference for him. Makes life much simpler.

Another option for you might be to see two Preferred411.com (p411) providers and ask them to "vouch" for you to p411 so you can get on p411. This also makes life much simpler, and each p411 lady can give you an "okay" there as well, which makes screening simpler.

I'm sorry that happened to you. Each lady runs her business her own way. You just gotta do your research and make sure they are team players.

Quote Originally Posted by Kindgun View Post
Thank you Nova. I got confused between reference/screen and verification. It seems verification is not needed (and anyway I have to be screened per girl basis).

Is it common that the girl I visited refused to be put as my reference? If that is the case, I am not sure how could I find references...