Audra:
You use the word stalking and the fact that someone is doing that to you worries me...greatly.
Stalkers typically have a mental disorder of one type or another from research I have read.
I'm going to guess that he's not being so overt (i.e. following you, just showing up at places where you are) since you mentioned emails.
Nonetheless, unwanted emails and phonecalls, anonymous or otherwise are still something that need dealing with.
I havent really had to deal with over excessive email thing so I'm afraid I don't have any great advice.
If I am wrong and he is following you etc you really need to think about involving a third party (lawyer) and fairly quickly. I'm not being OTT in that suggestion, so please don't brush it off as not necessary. Stalking can get out of control fairly quickly and that's why most States have some really tough laws on this type of behavior. The stalkers will downplay and justify it...but dont let him if he tries to do that. I do know how intimidating it is to feel stalked so I feel for you. Maybe that's what you need to explain to him...tell him that's how his behavior makes you feel (stalked)? I dunno, it's hard to say without knowing the gent in question...
If you need more help and support please dont be afraid to reach out.
Camille[/b]
