Escort girlfriend

[chloevankatie]

That is your projection of her motivations. Maybe she just liked sex with lots of random dudes, which has a far different impact on a potential life mate than being broken in a different way that simply manifested itself in random sex.

By self-censoring you deprive your partner of (potentially) critical info that they would want before continuing the relationship. That refusal to be vulnerable sabotages the relationship and is selfish.

And it applies to both genders and is NOT specific to the hobby.

I am not projecting. I have known this chick since we were kids. Trust me.

[chloevankatie]

That is your projection of her motivations. Maybe she just liked sex with lots of random dudes, which has a far different impact on a potential life mate than being broken in a different way that simply manifested itself in random sex.

By self-censoring you deprive your partner of (potentially) critical info that they would want before continuing the relationship. That refusal to be vulnerable sabotages the relationship and is selfish.

And it applies to both genders and is NOT specific to the hobby.

What I was saying is that its not important the number of people she slept with, but what she needs to divulge is whatever it is that is broken inside of her. Yes she needs to divulge something, but her escapades over the summer aren't what is really at the heart of her issues.

[chloevankatie]

I agree. If it's still a job, disclose. If not, don't disclose. If I were working while with him, I would owe it to him to tell him!

And stop getting bent out if shape. I love the different views. Your views have been fabulous!!!

And I agree with that...if it's still a job.

[chloevankatie]

By the time I was 25 I too had seen lots of my girlfriend sleeping around or playing house and it all looked like some bullshit. Lol.

Me too, all my girlfriends were quick to get preggo right out of school, but I really wanted to live life and see what the world had to offer. Why settle down just when things are only getting started?

[Anna Nikkole]

I believe that providers are all at different levels just like everyone else. You have promiscuous providers and civi's alike. You have straight forward clean providers who hold value by using their body as a business, not promiscuous, and civi's alike. CVK hasn't had sex in 5 months. Do you really think you can pick her up easily at a bar for a all out 1 night stand? I don't think so.

I can definitely say that I consider myself a boss. A real woman. Someone who holds herself at a higher standard! I don't cheat, I'm not a *****. I'm a provider and when my day at work is done I can definitely love and give my attention to one man.

We are not all alike

[Ben Rhimene]

CVK hasn't had sex in 5 months. Do you really think you can pick her up easily at a bar for a all out 1 night stand? I don't think so.

We are not all alike

Love a challenge.

You are sooooooo right! Constantly amazes me how some folks here try to constantly convince people the only course of action is to be exactly like them and view the world through a sinle lens.

[Anna Nikkole]

Love a challenge.

You are sooooooo right! Constantly amazes me how some folks here try to constantly convince people the only course of action is to be exactly like them and view the world through a sinle lens.

CVK is someone I'm not worried about in this challenge. Prepare to go home with some blue balls

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I was merely stating that we aren't all promiscuous. I don't consider working as a provider being as such. I mean in general.

[chloevankatie]

You are sooooooo right! Constantly amazes me how some folks here try to constantly convince people the only course of action is to be exactly like them and view the world through a sinle lens.

This is what I PM'd you about.

[chloevankatie]

That is your projection of her motivations. Maybe she just liked sex with lots of random dudes, which has a far different impact on a potential life mate than being broken in a different way that simply manifested itself in random sex.

If you are implying that I am saying she is sleeping with men due to her emotional vacancies, because I am projecting my own emotional vacancies onto her situation or that I am broken and this my projection, you are wrong. If I was emotionally vacant, I wouldn't be content to be by myself for several months.

And not only that, but I could, ironically say the same thing about you. Maybe you are projecting your emotional vacancies onto me about why you personally hobby and think that is why I am projecting those things onto her, as you have done to me.

I do hope you understand what projecting means and you are using the term correctly.


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[Ben Rhimene]

I do hope you understand what projecting means and you are using the term correctly.


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I do. I also understand that the phrase "most commonly" only means a plurality, and not even a majority.

I further understand that I did not refer to the DSM-V in my post, and it is you who assumes that was along the lines of what I meant. Perhaps a broken part of you was projecting that? Or perhaps you could only see the surface image, without knowing what has transpired to create that image? The Oxford Dictionary has a far broader series of various definitions for projection, and it was fallacious for you to presume one over the other and react accordingly.

I made ZERO comments or implications as to your makeup, history, or behavior, so I don't see any basis for that remark.

QED as to whether or not I know what projection means and am using it correctly.

[mathguy]

Wait. Wait. I'm confused. I thought we were talking about projection as in images on a screen. What is this new projection stuff?








Jordan fades back! He's broken the tension! Calms everyone and saves the day. I can't believe it! The crowd is going wild!! hahaha ;P

[chloevankatie]

I do. I also understand that the phrase "most commonly" only means a plurality, and not even a majority.

I further understand that I did not refer to the DSM-V in my post, and it is you who assumes that was along the lines of what I meant. Perhaps a broken part of you was projecting that? Or perhaps you could only see the surface image, without knowing what has transpired to create that image? The Oxford Dictionary has a far broader series of various definitions for projection, and it was fallacious for you to presume one over the other and react accordingly.

I made ZERO comments or implications as to your makeup, history, or behavior, so I don't see any basis for that remark.

QED as to whether or not I know what projection means and am using it correctly.

I supposed you have your DSM-V handy, because I did not cite my source. It was presumptuous of you to assume my source. But I guess you can tell us all what the DSM-V says regarding projection since you are a pro at armchair psych.

So if you understand what projection means, and how it is most commonly used, then you were using it in the most "uncommon" of means? Educate me on what that is supposed to be because I am unaware of uncommon usage, as I tend to utilize the English language in it's common form.

I made ZERO comments or implications as to your makeup, history, or behavior, so I don't see any basis for that remark.

You just did. ------->>>

Perhaps a broken part of you was projecting that?

But perhaps I hit a nerve when I hypothesized what it was you were projecting onto me.

[mathguy]

Damn.... looks like the ball hit the rim and bounced off :( Crap.

[chloevankatie]

Damn.... looks like the ball hit the rim and bounced off :( Crap.

I believe this is the shortest post MG has ever written, lol.

[mathguy]

I believe this is the shortest post MG has ever written, lol.

Maybe.
Wait....new record!