Providers that constantly complain

[Idea3.1]

Look, I get it. You have to deal with a bunch of dumbasses not following your instructions, asking dumb questions, and wasting your time. Anyone in sales has to put up with this though complaining to your customers won’t push product. .

I’ve noticed that the ladies that complain the most with long paragraphs usually mention how business has been slow and constantly have to drop their prices. While those with a great attitudes are always busy.

A lot of us get in this hobby because we having a nagging spouse at home so we get away for a few hours a week.

Just like the rude posting hobbyist who is being publicly screened it’s the same for providers. Enjoy your craft, spend time with people that treat you with respect and realize sales in every industry has to deal with losers at some point.

[Phoenixx]

they us postin'

they hatin'

yet there's something called the 'X' button

just hit the X button!

just hit the X button!

just hit the X button!

just hit the X BUTTON!


!

[Universal]

Ignore Button will save you from the mental torment. Ehe

[Torilove13]

Look, I get it. You have to deal with a bunch of dumbasses not following your instructions, asking dumb questions, and wasting your time. Anyone in sales has to put up with this though complaining to your customers won’t push product. .

I’ve noticed that the ladies that complain the most with long paragraphs usually mention how business has been slow and constantly have to drop their prices. While those with a great attitudes are always busy.

A lot of us get in this hobby because we having a nagging spouse at home so we get away for a few hours a week.

Just like the rude posting hobbyist who is being publicly screened it’s the same for providers. Enjoy your craft, spend time with people that treat you with respect and realize sales in every industry has to deal with losers at some point.

Preach!!
Yes thank you !
Well said

[Idea3.1]

Preach!!
Yes thank you !
Well said

[Secret Encounters]

Couldn’t agree more...
Use the block or ignore buttons it’s there to serve a purpose (ladies and gents).
Kind of hard to demand discretion and respect with full frontal avatar no
Blurring of any sort just my two pennies.

[Danielle Jacks]

Look, I get it. You have to deal with a bunch of dumbasses not following your instructions, asking dumb questions, and wasting your time. Anyone in sales has to put up with this though complaining to your customers won’t push product. .

I’ve noticed that the ladies that complain the most with long paragraphs usually mention how business has been slow and constantly have to drop their prices. While those with a great attitudes are always busy.

A lot of us get in this hobby because we having a nagging spouse at home so we get away for a few hours a week.

Just like the rude posting hobbyist who is being publicly screened it’s the same for providers. Enjoy your craft, spend time with people that treat you with respect and realize sales in every industry has to deal with losers at some point.

Very well put Idea3.1

[JennyJenny8675]

Look, I get it. You have to deal with a bunch of dumbasses not following your instructions, asking dumb questions, and wasting your time. Anyone in sales has to put up with this though complaining to your customers won’t push product. .

I’ve noticed that the ladies that complain the most with long paragraphs usually mention how business has been slow and constantly have to drop their prices. While those with a great attitudes are always busy.

A lot of us get in this hobby because we having a nagging spouse at home so we get away for a few hours a week.

Just like the rude posting hobbyist who is being publicly screened it’s the same for providers. Enjoy your craft, spend time with people that treat you with respect and realize sales in every industry has to deal with losers at some point.

If I could find the avatar for mic drop I would insert it after your post! Well said sir!
Xo
Jenny

[F117]

Personally, I prefer that providers with "issues" put it all out there on the boards or go all BSC when you're just trying to TCB and set up a first appointment. It's saved me a LOT of $$$$$$!

I was in another state a while ago and spent days researching and setting up an extended appointment with a provider. The morning of the appointment every inch of interstate and local loop interstate was under construction plus it was raining like 40 days and 40 nights. I called the provider to let her know my situation, and she immediately started grilling me like, "How far away are you? How soon will you be here?" I told her I had been sitting still in traffic looking at the back of a dump truck for the past 10 minutes and had no idea when I would get there. She responded by screaming obscenities into the phone. I hung up, and when traffic moved for shits and grins I drove by the place where I was supposed to call for the exact address. Dodged a bullet in more than one way - I didn't stop driving, her 'hood looked like North Las Vegas (different city, through).

Everybody is entitled to having a bad day and blowing off some steam (so to speak), but remember the warning, "The internet is forever." And very unforgiving.

Just sayin'.

[twiggy]

Look, I get it. You have to deal with a bunch of dumbasses not following your instructions, asking dumb questions, and wasting your time. Anyone in sales has to put up with this though complaining to your customers won’t push product. .

I’ve noticed that the ladies that complain the most with long paragraphs usually mention how business has been slow and constantly have to drop their prices. While those with a great attitudes are always busy.

A lot of us get in this hobby because we having a nagging spouse at home so we get away for a few hours a week.

Just like the rude posting hobbyist who is being publicly screened it’s the same for providers. Enjoy your craft, spend time with people that treat you with respect and realize sales in every industry has to deal with losers at some point.

I feel most on this site are so use to actresses. It’s like you’re saying “I come here to find a body. Not someone who talks. Be a good girl and do what I want because I’m paying” type of thing. That it’s somewhat offense for them to be normal and real in the moment.
Like if they’re nagging to you, what did you do to cause it?

Every provider won’t be happy all the time if she’s real.
This is why I must have a phone convo with a hobbyist.
I can usually tell what he’s looking for and 9/10 it’s an actress which I refuse to ever be. Even for money or popularity.

Folks can enjoy their craft and also complain about the bs they deal with. As women, they deserve that much. They deserve to be vocal without men trying to make their feelings Seem wrong.
Who folks have at home isn’t our responsibility to worry about.
I feel if a man doesn’t want to hear “nagging” he should stop doing whatever to cause them to nag lol
Its sooooo simple.

[Idea3.1]

I feel most on this site are so use to actresses. It’s like you’re saying “I come here to find a body. Not someone who talks. Be a good girl and do what I want because I’m paying” type of thing. That it’s somewhat offense for them to be normal and real in the moment.
Like if they’re nagging to you, what did you do to cause it?

Every provider won’t be happy all the time if she’s real.
This is why I must have a phone convo with a hobbyist.
I can usually tell what he’s looking for and 9/10 it’s an actress which I refuse to ever be. Even for money or popularity.

Folks can enjoy their craft and also complain about the bs they deal with. As women, they deserve that much. They deserve to be vocal without men trying to make their feelings Seem wrong.
Who folks have at home isn’t our responsibility to worry about.
I feel if a man doesn’t want to hear “nagging” he should stop doing whatever to cause them to nag lol
Its sooooo simple.

I guess I am thinking of it from a business perspective and what sells more. The sales person who is complaining to their clients all the time, or the one with a great attitude while at work. Just like from the providers perspective you are more likely to want to see the guy that treats others with respect on this board rather than the one who is openly a jerk to other providers, right?

No one is saying women can’t have feelings so let’s not go down that BS 2020 PC road. It’s simple business, people buy from those they like. Would you buy a car from a salesmen that is complaining the whole time about how other customers wasted his time and what a crappy day it is outside— Probably not if you had another option.

[maxonprice]

Idea3.1: This is SO very well articulated! I'm in sales and you absolutely hit the nail on the head with this one. I will ALWAYS.... ALWAYS chose attitude over anything else. In this business/hobby, often times text communication is the first impression. As we all know, first impressions are critical. So, for me, in that first text communication those that are "snippy" and sassy get immediately deleted! And I mean immediate. It's over. You just lost my business and those two one hundred dollar bills I have stashed away in my wallet. Yes...those WERE yours. It's no loss to me in anyway. I actually just gained! But, think about that... that's a significant loss... AND next week, there will be another "stash" in my wallet..they lost that too! It can be a painful thing to think about from a business perspective. I have lost valuable customers in my business because of my own boneheaded moves and attitude at times. It sucks and it is never worth it. HOWEVER, there are jobs where you CAN be snippy and sassy, but selling a valued product is not really one of them. NO ONE side is in "charge" of the process here, we BOTH have valued interest in the transaction here. We each want what the other has. Respect and attitude and niceness with a little charm on BOTH sides, go a VERY long way!

I also get it that some of us have a bad day and I ALSO get that some newer hobbyist don't quite fully understand the game and may have novice questions or be making novice moves within their conversations.
FROM a SALES, BUSINESS and MARKETING standpoint this is where helping those types to understand the system can go a LONG way in creating a business relationship that may or could become part of your "book of business."

I ALSO understand, (From a sales perspective) there are those that WILL somewhat "require" that snippy/sassy response because they don't/won't "get it" and they shouldn't be here in the first place and THIS takes me to what has been mentioned. "Ignore" button or whatever. The first impression goes BOTH ways.

This really is a business and one thing that was mentioned early on above is that those that are sweet and nice are ALWAYS busy! Typically, if a person is sweet, nice and HAPPY by default, they don't allow other's attitude get to them and they simply "immediately delete" and move on or they hit ignore and move on and continue being their happy self. And those are the people that are always busy! ;)

Everyone stay safe!