When the eccie leaks came out, i was horrified by the awful and just plain mean spirited things guys said about the ladies, including myself. These were men that came back to see me over and over, yet some bashed me for no reason. After being reduced to subhuman and having every tiny flaw picked apart, I NEVER want to see what’s over the fence. I literally had to go to therapy and I became an extremely depressed and jaded provider. It served as a good life lesson though. Other people’s opinions of you, aren’t facts and don’t change your value one bit! After gaining some maturity, I realized I was tying my self worth to my “career” as many people do.
It allowed me to grow and learn self acceptance and pushed me to get further education, so I would never be too dependent on this.

Lest, I go live at a retirement home for old hoogers!! Lol