Clients that want to "Hang Out as Friends", thoughts please

[Slitlikr]

The broken hearts in this business when a man or woman is mislead into a relationship of free lust instead of love. He won't leave his wife even in the heat of passion a promise of divorcing >Her won't happen.

Any provider who would fall for that line is in the wrong business.

[Universal]

Any provider who would fall for that line is in the wrong business.

Happens more than you think sweetheart. They don't talk about it often for fear of the ridicule, Embarrassment.

[lovelyxxxo]

Any provider who would fall for that line is in the wrong business.

+1.... im assuming when this happens its a very young companion... which as cute as the innocence act is there is a big diffrence between innocent and gullible..

i think there are times when a companion and a hobbyist have actually ended up together (sometimes even married) but that is few and far between and usually both parties were SINGLE to begin with..

as far as Friends... I'm not sure about everyone but for me if their is not a mutaul level of Respect then there is no Friendship there to begin with (even in r.l im not trying to be friends with people i dont respect nor dont respect me)

I do have a few that i have and do consider friends and i do have to agree with the point of "BOUNDARIES" But also i have those in r.l as well theres just some rds better left undriven... But i see no reason why the oppisite gender friendship shouldnt work if its someone you have known awhile(now dont jump headfirst into a friendship with someone you just met, this isnt the first day of kindergarten)

everyone needs someone period... especially in this business.. some do not have a r.w friend or family that would be accepting to talk about the hobby world.. some ladies just dont trust other ladies (believe it or not i know a few that are very very wary of even talking with other companions) so whose to say whats right or wrong...

bottom line i dont think we should judge or dismiss any one decision to be friends with their hobby gents. but do approach with caution dont jump in expecting more than it is.. and dont try to make him leave his wife,, not gonna happen.. keep it friendly if you are just going to lunch go have fun i see nothing wrong with that...

[Universal]

Bump... Current update, I was definitely played this past month with the friend bait.
A hobbyist wanted me as a regular with a friendship no _strings_attached relationship.
I came to the conclusion that I was played, he told me he wanted just one regular and was tired of all the negativity that came with hobbying but has the audacity to test me with a "iou" proposition (a session BCD and pay later)because he gets paid on the first. The nerve !
Players always fuck up when they talk hype making a provider think she is going to be the only one he wants to see but still has open accounts on every escort review website.
Why do players think this is going to work in their favor? Because he thought he was going to get deferential treatment better than the average client.
He won't have to write any reviews because he is retired but still hanging out on a ****** board. Don't ever assume I will let you fuck me and pay later because you was a personal friend.

[Guest 101723-1]

I retract my statement.
I do not and will not hang out as friends.

Why ruin a perfectly functioning relationship

[Anna Nikkole]

When I have an appointment with a client we can talk as friends sure, and every now and then I'll get a "how are you" text. I don't do personal dinners or do anything outside the session. That can lead to just getting the goods for free or a attempt to. And I've been asked a couple of times, but not so much that it's annoying. I just shrug it off. I'm over friendly and I over talk, joke, laugh, spill my heart out. But that's what makes me real. When we meet up again for pay for play we can catch up from the time he has paid for!

[Phoenixx]

Players always fuck up when they talk hype making a provider think she is going to be the only one he wants to see but still has open accounts on every escort review website.

bruh, we know what time it is, so quit playin' games

I would actually be concerned if a client was solely seeing just me....
risk of infatuation, jealousy, etc. uggh

As a gal who has mostly guy friends. In the RW I a best friend who I have never had sex with nor has he ever tried.

word.

my best friend is a guy and asexual ha

him and I are polar opposites in many aspects, but it def keeps us grounded x

The moment a paying friend tries to push it I take it as a sign of disrespect (and i'll "fire" someone really fast).

yaaaasssss

business is business

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Without going into all the details of brain chemistry, dopamine, serotonin, etc... what do you think is responsible for that quick and pleasant feeling? Exactly. A mixture of oxytocin and a bunch of neurotransmitters stimulating your attraction to the other person and causing you to have that physical response (however brief it may be). Sex intensifies this a thousand fold. For both genders. This is why you should always make yourself do a reality check on the status of any "relationship" after sex is involved. IJS folks Hope this helps

keep your oxytocin in check, y'all

[Bosko]

I've had several ask me to hang put for drinks etc...I dont do that for one reason...I dont want to be referred to as "one of my clients"....and I do not do public invites.