ECCIE has the longevity aspect, it's been around so long as it's a "brand" that hobby people trust. This is a fine website, a bit outdated but nice enough. The problem is search function so when you search for hobby websites this will definitely not be in the top pages like EroticMonkey, SKP, Listcrawler and so on and those don't have a nice forum like eccie did, I think EroticMonkey does but it's nothing special if I recall and the pages are ancient when it comes to service providers.