Who still needs love?

[bigwave]

Lets see where this thread goes...

There comes a point after 15-years of marriage and 3-kids ending in a divorcce, when I (maybe you too) start to wonder if we can ever be in real relationship again? Being a hobbist not by choice, but more by need or lust scroll through the ads here after a few drinks.

I just wonder if I will/can have a real relationship again? There are so many beautiful providers that I question the need for a real relationship again - and that bothers me a bit.

There will always be the desire of being with a sexy, beautiful women. But is 30 or 60-minutes enough? Do you providers or hobbists still want at the end of the day, that ONE partner for life?

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I’ll bite.

I believe in real relationships. I think we all need partners with whom we can share our lives, for better or for worse.

My first marriage ended after 16 years. A year later I met the woman who’s been my wife for almost 30 years. I cannot imagine my life without her.

I am a hobbyist by choice. The hobby affords me pleasurable opportunities that my wife cannot provide. But at the end of the day, yes I want that one partner for life.

[SkyyLove4u]

I cant speak for every provider...but speaking for myself, of course. I've been engaged (military days), but never married and no kids. And I want both. So eventually I'll stop providing to focus more on that. I honestly believe there's nothing like being with someone who truly makes you happy.

[Oralist]

I’ll bite.

I believe in real relationships. I think we all need partners with whom we can share our lives, for better or for worse.

My first marriage ended after 16 years. A year later I met the woman who’s been my wife for almost 30 years. I cannot imagine my life without her.

I am a hobbyist by choice. The hobby affords me pleasurable opportunities that my wife cannot provide. But at the end of the day, yes I want that one partner for life.

Similar situation for me.

[suckaforlove]

You speak the truth my friend. I started hobbying after I learned my better half used every lie in the book to get married. Not to mention she continued to accuse me of cheating when I wasn't. Hell. I may as well since I'm going to get accused of it anyways.