a note to verified ladies

[Italia DiBella]

My post wast directed to jojodancer15..... ^^^ Maybe Chica had chili con queso, a burrito and beer before yall met

[Guest 011723-1]

Which is still facts! All I keep reading is you ladies need to update your bio, you ladies need to put your stats, you ladies need to put more pics. Again most of the time the information is right in your face or accessible via the providers website. Take time and read.

For instance screening is required; with options listed and directions to follow. So you tell me why I or other providers get messages asking if you’re available. How am I supposed to be available to you when our ads or profiles clearly state screening required before you can schedule? I’ll tell you because they only looked at pictures and didn’t read.

How else would you have me perceive it? I can only perceive it as, some men don’t bother to read and they are ONLY concerned about the pictures. It is what it is! ����*♀️ If that shit doesn’t apply to you then, what are you reply to me and commenting about? Move around! Should I perceive that you are one of them?

I have lots of great clients that can read and follow simple directions and keep it simple and they are complete gentlemen. So what you’re NOT going to try and do is “oh you really come across as I don’t have a very high opinion of most guys”, quite the contrary. I just happen to have an opinion and I’m not afraid to state that opinion.

Some of you bitch bullies want to get you panties all in a bunch when a provider has an opinion. You expect us to shut up and coware, for fear that it will hurt our business. I’ll tell you I’m NOT that bitch! I’m a straight shooter and complete sweetheart and that is who my clients get and they are quite happy. They or I don’t have to worry about bullshit, because they read.

What I will tell you assholes that think you can come for me....my dick & my mouth is ALWAYS bigger and they stay ready. Fuck I look like. ����

I love this! The " are you available" in my inbox annoys me and I shouldn't respond but I direct them to my latest ad.

[bb1961]

I love when a post contains foul mouthed context......so classy!!

[Guest 011723-1]

Judge much?

[bb1961]

Profanity is ALWAYS classy!!
Statement not a judgement!!

[1andonlyboardman]

Which is still facts! All I keep reading is you ladies need to update your bio, you ladies need to put your stats, you ladies need to put more pics. Again most of the time the information is right in your face or accessible via the providers website. Take time and read.

For instance screening is required; with options listed and directions to follow. So you tell me why I or other providers get messages asking if you’re available. How am I supposed to be available to you when our ads or profiles clearly state screening required before you can schedule? I’ll tell you because they only looked at pictures and didn’t read.

How else would you have me perceive it? I can only perceive it as, some men don’t bother to read and they are ONLY concerned about the pictures. It is what it is! ����*♀️ If that shit doesn’t apply to you then, what are you reply to me and commenting about? Move around! Should I perceive that you are one of them?

I have lots of great clients that can read and follow simple directions and keep it simple and they are complete gentlemen. So what you’re NOT going to try and do is “oh you really come across as I don’t have a very high opinion of most guys”, quite the contrary. I just happen to have an opinion and I’m not afraid to state that opinion.

Some of you bitch bullies want to get you panties all in a bunch when a provider has an opinion. You expect us to shut up and coware, for fear that it will hurt our business. I’ll tell you I’m NOT that bitch! I’m a straight shooter and complete sweetheart and that is who my clients get and they are quite happy. They or I don’t have to worry about bullshit, because they read.

What I will tell you assholes that think you can come for me....my dick & my mouth is ALWAYS bigger and they stay ready. Fuck I look like. ����

I take it back. You just come across as hostile...
My perception is that you are impatient and intolerant and maybe not very customer service oriented. It seems that you want to use not quite absolutes like "most of you" or "the majority of you" that feels like it lumps all guys into the same pile but then you say you have a lot of great clients that do read. Which is it? Do your clients read or don't they? That's my perception gleaned only from your posts. I don't know you any other way.

Why would you rant like this if the people you are ranting about don't read what you write. No one is coming for you or attacking you despite you coming across as hostile. What audience do you think you are affecting? My guess is it would only be the ones that do read and are on the fence. Those that don't read aren't hearing what you have to say, right? They don't matter. Those that absolutely want to see you aren't going to give a shit about what you have to say so the only remaining demographic are those that might want to see you but are reading your posts and making their mind up based on what you write. I know I'm not going to see someone that comes across as hostile and I thoroughly read everything I can by and about a provider before I make the decision to see her.

Look, you're in a service business. You know this. As bad as you hate it sometimes you have to cater to customers who are less than perfect. I do it all the time. I get calls from stupid people all day long. I don't go on my industry websites and complain about them asking questions that are obviously on my website. I don't tell them to do more research and call me back. I answer their questions with a smile and try to find some way to make a customer out of them. If I can't make them my customer I try to find a friend who is a better fit for them and I make that all as seamless for the customer as I possibly can. As far as I'm concerned if they picked up the phone and made a call to me they've done their part, it's now up to me to ask questions about their needs, vet them, qualify them and follow up from that point on to close the deal. They have the money I want and I have the product and service they want. No point in antagonizing them because they're stupid. As a matter of fact I love a stupid customer. They're easier to sell.

[The1Slayer]

Look, you're in a service business. You know this. As bad as you hate it sometimes you have to cater to customers who are less than perfect. I do it all the time. I get calls from stupid people all day long. I don't go on my industry websites and complain about them asking questions that are obviously on my website. I don't tell them to do more research and call me back. I answer their questions with a smile and try to find some way to make a customer out of them. If I can't make them my customer I try to find a friend who is a better fit for them and I make that all as seamless for the customer as I possibly can. As far as I'm concerned if they picked up the phone and made a call to me they've done their part, it's now up to me to ask questions about their needs, vet them, qualify them and follow up from that point on to close the deal. They have the money I want and I have the product and service they want. No point in antagonizing them because they're stupid. As a matter of fact I love a stupid customer. They're easier to sell.

My favorite part............................. I am also in a Service Oriented business, I work in a corporate company and my personal Business, and also get calls from stupid people but I have to answer the questions with a smile even though everything is on our company website..............

Sometimes Customer Service is having to put up with stupid people or direct them to better suited companies that will provide them with their needs.





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[Ironmann11]

Half of you guys are complaining about filling out a complete profile and the only thing you’re interested in is looking at pictures (picture stalking and no booking). The majority of you don’t even bother to read.

Providers should do like P411 and provide you with 3 pictures only.

If your business is that good then you don’t need to market yourself. Picture’s are a good marketing tool. Fortunately for us were not selling anything. So really no need for us to have to post much. You girls are in competition for our business. So market yoursef however you deem fit. Whether were just window shopping or not sooner or later one of the girls we are looking at will get picked. Some may play more than other’s but picture’s are better than not unless your hiding something.

[Guest 011723-1]

"As a matter of fact I love a stupid customer. They're easier to sell. " LOL. +1

[Carlisle]

I take it back. You just come across as hostile...
My perception is that you are impatient and intolerant and maybe not very customer service oriented. It seems that you want to use not quite absolutes like "most of you" or "the majority of you" that feels like it lumps all guys into the same pile but then you say you have a lot of great clients that do read. Which is it? Do your clients read or don't they? That's my perception gleaned only from your posts. I don't know you any other way.

Why would you rant like this if the people you are ranting about don't read what you write. No one is coming for you or attacking you despite you coming across as hostile. What audience do you think you are affecting? My guess is it would only be the ones that do read and are on the fence. Those that don't read aren't hearing what you have to say, right? They don't matter. Those that absolutely want to see you aren't going to give a shit about what you have to say so the only remaining demographic are those that might want to see you but are reading your posts and making their mind up based on what you write. I know I'm not going to see someone that comes across as hostile and I thoroughly read everything I can by and about a provider before I make the decision to see her.

Look, you're in a service business. You know this. As bad as you hate it sometimes you have to cater to customers who are less than perfect. I do it all the time. I get calls from stupid people all day long. I don't go on my industry websites and complain about them asking questions that are obviously on my website. I don't tell them to do more research and call me back. I answer their questions with a smile and try to find some way to make a customer out of them. If I can't make them my customer I try to find a friend who is a better fit for them and I make that all as seamless for the customer as I possibly can. As far as I'm concerned if they picked up the phone and made a call to me they've done their part, it's now up to me to ask questions about their needs, vet them, qualify them and follow up from that point on to close the deal. They have the money I want and I have the product and service they want. No point in antagonizing them because they're stupid. As a matter of fact I love a stupid customer. They're easier to sell.

Hostile? I think we may have two totally different definitions of hostile. I was actually being cordial with you, but hey I completely understand, that is how I come across sometimes, but like you said you don’t know me either way. I can assure that I’m not though. I’m really down to earth and a sweetheart, once you get to know me. I am just a very blunt and honest person and I call things how I see them. I’m not the type of person that tells others what the want to hear, so my thoughts are never calculated or tailored. They are just direct and not sugarcoated. At least ast you know you’re getting the truth, however it may come across.

As far a absolutes, I’ll speak for myself. From my experience, one can never look at my profile and not say that I don’t have enough information or information is nonexistent, because I tend to be OCD, very detailed and thorough. Heck, have you read my etiquette policy? If that doesn’t give you some indication of who I am, I don’t know what to tell you.🤷🏾*♀️ Don’t be so quick to judge me, though.

Pictures I love taking, why not I have an amazing body! I train 3 days a week and work hard for it. I’ll give y'all every possible angle I can get, with no filter because I have nothing to hide. Who and what you see in my pictures is what you’ll get live in person, minus my face. I have a personal life and personally prefer my anonymity and refuse to broadcast my face on the internet.

Why the rant? Because I left my opinion about the other topic, like I don’t when...🤔 And then here you come replying to my recent reply, in this thread and bringing up old shit and making me appear to not have a very low opinion of men. My immediate reaction was drama queen.

I mean my dad, yeah, but I don’t know your or anyone else I haven’t met from atom to think in such a manner. I stated the truth and you’re attempting to more or less say, if I have such a problem with men, why am I in this business? By the way in case you wanted to know, because I have a high sex drive and I love to fuck! :Sidebar: ISO....I’m still looking for a handsome white guy, fit tall, 6’3 and taller, that can fuck like they do in porn.😈 Do you even exist? 😩 just need to fulfill that fantasy, hey you guys have your fatnatsies, I have mine.

Anyways back on topic...Because I’m a grown women and I can. I had an opinion about what the men were asking providers for and what some providers (not all) actually do list, but the men are simply neglecting to just read. Men are visual creatures. For some men the minute they see something they like, they bypass all the important stuff and go straight for the phone number. What I said was true, but not for all men, but you’re acting like I I said something that wasn’t true.

Audience...I’m not new to this business. I’ve been around since 2009. My reputation is solid, sealed and tucked away. This is not the first time I’ve had to go through a rebuttal with a man on the board and I’m sure it will not be the last. I’m a Taurus. I’m always ready, charged and up for a head on collision. I’m not afraid to say whatever’s is on my mind either. You would be surprised by the messages and emails I get from men for sticking up for myself, regardless of if I used profanity or not. I’m sure they would be glad to comment, but it will turn into a knight in shining armor.

You’re comparison of this business to corporate world is on two totally opposite ends of the spectrum. While both encompass aspects such as customer service, they do not operate the same. In this business, yes the men are the customers, but you talk as though you dictate and control how a women’s business and donation amount, should run and should be and you don’t.

Yes, customer service is important and I without a doubt provide that in a manner that is conducive to the way I run MY business. I also know how corporate world operates, as I work a corporate world job as well. Just because I rant and use profanity, you seem to try and talk to me as though I’m not educated and have no experience in the corporate world, whereas that is not the case; people report to me darling.

The difference between the two is, I have to be patient and customer centric and walk the customer through things step by step like a child or tailor my sit downs when reprimanding my employees. However, in this businesss I’m not obligated to. Do you know how many men are in this world? As long as men have dicks; pussy will always be a necessity. So I’m not concerned about trying to intrigue the knucke heads that can’t read, try to negotiate rates, make offers etc. My interest is piqued with men of a sophisticated caliber, who are business oriented, articulate and have a sense of humor.

You think men are the only ones vetting women? No. Any man that contacts me, your initial contact is and introduction and depiction of who you are to me. It is included in part of my vetting process. Do you say Good morning, afternoon? Did he introduce himself...wait he might just be nervous...Don’t see him yet? Can he make a complete sentence? Not R U Available? No, I ammmm not especially if you send me a message looking like that. You might just be a pimp. Can you read and follow directions? The list goes on. If you can’ follow the basic, what makes you think I want to put myself in a room with you alone for 30 minutes or more? You could be a potential headache and that’s risky business. I base seeing a client with his comments on the board, what he writes and how he talks about a provider in the parts of the review I can see. Hell my do not see list stays up to date with people who see transsexuals and SW’s or even comment on being interested in seeing one. That’s an automatic add for me. No judgment, that’s your thing, but I don’t want any parts of it. This business is already risky as it is, I sure don’t want to increase it. I pick and choose who I want to see too, it’s not just men.

Heck if y’all are asking I’d like to request that the men indicate their stats....height, race, body type, slim, fit, average, big belly, bad breath, missing teeth, I might forget to wash my ass right, cheap, pimp, I dabble with men and women, erectile dysfunction, little dick, you might have to lift my stomach up and find my dick, budget, race preference, body type in their signature lines and bio. It sure would help when replying to some of these ISO you guys put it. Then you can find exactly what you want quicker and then I can pick an choose wisely as well, but I don’t need all of that. I don’t even want a picture of he person, I’m meeting. I like the mystery aspect. There are some things I will put up with and some I won’t and the my clientele base is of those that are gentlemen and understand my hygiene policy.

I post ads, with pictures and information that advise any potential customer what my requirements are and what is necessary to book and appointment with me. I spent hours creating my website and making sure it can answer any and all possible options that a potential customer might have, not to mention my ads and yet all they have to do is read. Has that stopped me from receiving “are you available texts”? No! Because some men don’t read and I’m not interested in meeting someone that can’t take the time to read and get to know be via my website or ads.

Men are customers for a plethora of reasons, no offense... some of you can’t get a woman period, if your life depended on it because your shy, ugly, some low self esteem, some don’t want the headache of dealing with a woman and being tied down in a relationship, some of you are just **** to yourself :); I’m just a paid hoe.😁 Some of you are actually missing out on that passion at home whether your better half is not sucking you’re dick, not giving it up enough, some of you are getting all the action at home and your bored.....whatever category you fit into.

I am just a very businessed minded person and in this business you have to be, you should be able to respect that. I would hope that if you were running a business you would be running it and conducting it and not your employees telling you how to run it.

I’m done with this convo.....signing off.

Have a good evening!

Carlisle

[pxmcc]

^^agree or disagree, just wow... it's a magnum opus..

[rmrstyle23]

This thread has been quite enlightening and dare I say eye opening.

I guess you can mess up a simple thing. This is supposed to be a fantasy land of sorts free of bs.A simple equation I see, I pay, We play and I get it providers are human too but really you want me to fill out my bio and profile on this site smh Not going to happen. And with all due respect it doesn't matter what we look like only what WE like.

We want to see and visualize and yes we may not read all of the instructions because blood flow issues or just sheer passion because just like you we're human so please extend the same courtesy to us as you would like to receive.

Let's play and have fun and enjoy one another

[1andonlyboardman]

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[Beau Derierre]

Is it even really worth it anymore? Going out of your way to stand out with pics...just to get asked a million times for a 15 min special. Even hundred dollar an hr date. This industry is truly watered down!

On a different note if a serious gentleman is interested in spending on a decent date...then there is always email to send pictures! Too dam many window shoppers whinning

[Jasmine Starr]

Is it even really worth it anymore? Going out of your way to stand out with pics...just to get asked a million times for a 15 min special. Even hundred dollar an hr date. This industry is truly watered down!

On a different note if a serious gentleman is interested in spending on a decent date...then there is always email to send pictures! Too dam many window shoppers whinning

Amen!