GREEK

[SexySammy]

OP made a thread in Coed about the hobby. There is a difference in a PSA and annoyance, than being hurt or want to fight.

I will say, if my first contact is to receive a text of "Anna, do you offer greek". I don't know where he saw my ad, I don't know if he missed it. Ill either just send a clipboard with important information with that included, or a simple no.

What the OP was discussing was bombarding and continued persuasion.

And I personally cannot take it up the ass or that ray of sunshine that shoots out of it when I'm face down will be blocked. Many of my lovely admirers will be disappointed :)

It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.

The guys are very much to blame. I'm truly hoping this was a sarcastic comment and you don't truly think like this. Its giving "video games are teaching kids to be violent". People are more than capable of discerning when it is and not ok to ask about "off menu items", as this isn't a restaurant and far from it.

[Transylvania Count]

I'll summarize my points, and hopefully that'll get them across more effectively.

Ranting here will do nothing. It won't educate those who don't care to be educated. Those who care to be educated already understand that "no means no." A more effective solution is to block the offender and post about the experience in the ladies' forum, so others are warned.

We can go on unhinged rants about what should be, or we can learn to cope with what is. The hobby has been, is and will remain the same.

For those of you who care to read about an example of ineffective communication, read on. I grew up on the first floor of an apartment building. The hallway is enclosed because the winters are harsh in Transylvania. Even cars are kept in garages because of the cold weather. The hallway has two doors: one at the front which most people used, and one at the back used by the tenants to get to the detached garages behind that apartment building. One of the tenants who lived on the fifth floor never remembered to shut the door behind him and make sure it locks. Hobos would sneak into the hallway to spend the night and would leave behind trash and excrement. For those living on the top floors, this didn't matter at all. But for those of us living on the first floor, it mattered. My father (who was a teacher and absolutely should have known better) thought that the best way to handle it would be to yell at the tenant about shutting the door. It went about as well as you would expect. Nothing changed. My father started loudly slamming the door every time he found it open. We heard it and it was supremely annoying, but likely nobody above the second floor heard more than a muffled thud. The tenant on the fifth floor likely heard nothing and couldn't care less about it. No matter how many times my mother and us kids tried to convince my father that what he was doing was ineffective, he wouldn't listen. "See, the door was locked today! It's working!" (hint, hint). He died about ten years ago convinced his useless act of loudly slamming that door made a difference. In the end, the effective solution is a badge system on a door that automatically shuts and locks. So simple!

[knottyman]

I'll summarize my points, and hopefully that'll get them across more effectively.

Ranting here will do nothing. It won't educate those who don't care to be educated. Those who care to be educated already understand that "no means no." A more effective solution is to block the offender and post about the experience in the ladies' forum, so others are warned.

We can go on unhinged rants about what should be, or we can learn to cope with what is. The hobby has been, is and will remain the same.

For those of you who care to read about an example of ineffective communication, read on. I grew up on the first floor of an apartment building. The hallway is enclosed because the winters are harsh in Transylvania. Even cars are kept in garages because of the cold weather. The hallway has two doors: one at the front which most people used, and one at the back used by the tenants to get to the detached garages behind that apartment building. One of the tenants who lived on the fifth floor never remembered to shut the door behind him and make sure it locks. Hobos would sneak into the hallway to spend the night and would leave behind trash and excrement. For those living on the top floors, this didn't matter at all. But for those of us living on the first floor, it mattered. My father (who was a teacher and absolutely should have known better) thought that the best way to handle it would be to yell at the tenant about shutting the door. It went about as well as you would expect. Nothing changed. My father started loudly slamming the door every time he found it open. We heard it and it was supremely annoying, but likely nobody above the second floor heard more than a muffled thud. The tenant on the fifth floor likely heard nothing and couldn't care less about it. No matter how many times my mother and us kids tried to convince my father that what he was doing was ineffective, he wouldn't listen. "See, the door was locked today! It's working!" (hint, hint). He died about ten years ago convinced his useless act of loudly slamming that door made a difference. In the end, the effective solution is a badge system on a door that automatically shuts and locks. So simple!

While we're on the subject of posting long winded useless shit.
Most don't know I was in prison.
I walked in on my wife and her lover, and in a rage and I "unalived" them both.
I got 2 life sentences. But the warden found out i was good with numbers and had me help him do his taxes. After a while , I was doing them for all the guards as well as cooking the books for the warden.
All the while I was digging a hole out of my cell using a tiny hammer while disguising it with a poster.
I eventually escaped thru that hole crawling a 1/4 of mile thru piss and shit. And now have a boat building business in Zehuatinejo, Mexico.
I only cum to Texas to hobby.

[Transylvania Count]

While we're on the subject of posting long winded useless shit.
Most don't know I was in prison.
I walked in on my wife and her lover, and in a rage and I "unalived" them both.
I got 2 life sentences. But the warden found out i was good with numbers and had me help him do his taxes. After a while , I was doing them for all the guards as well as cooking the books for the warden.
All the while I was digging a hole out of my cell using a tiny hammer while disguising it with a poster.
I eventually escaped thru that hole crawling a 1/4 of mile thru piss and shit. And now have a boat building business in Zehuatinejo, Mexico.
I only cum to Texas to hobby.

Shawshank Redemption is one of the all time great movies.

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Unhinged rants... Wow...

If I RANT...

Then TRUST ME...

You will KNOW IT...

You can't even handle the thought of a FINGER IN YOUR ASS!!LOL �� �� ��

You DO NOT get to tell me, or any other woman, where we can speak as long as we are POLITE and stay on topic... So, pay attention SPARKY, because, I was being polite in the above response and now, I am going to be polite but stern...

WE, meaning the WOMEN on this board, especially SUE NAMI, already got the message that you would like us to take ALL of our posts, our opinion and our thoughts to the ladies rooms... Hell, but why, don't we take our views, back to the 50's and wrap them in a nice & neat SPERM FREE casserole? ��

The ladies already KNOW what NO means... And, if the guys on the FIRST floor are uncomfortable with the NOISE, I've heard that you can either sound proof your living space, change your living arrangement, buy ear plugs, or HELL, since we are talking about ASSTASTIC pleasures, you can get a few BUTT PLUGS to distract you from all of the noise coming from the women on the board...who are discussing men trying to force objects into their DELICIOUS ASSES that are not INTO such activities... (The ladies and and I are here to help you..)

And just so that we are CLEAR... I am NOT concerned about where your father or any of your cronies forced their women to hide their concerns... So, if you need to go into the garage and shut the door, close it, slam it... Read your comic books... I am GOOD!! I still have my teeth... Do you? So, put on your costume, climb into your coffin and wait for this particular woman to ASK if she needs instructions on how to survive as a HO in this world because I am doing great... But, if i need a DADDY, I already have a few ATF'S in Austin that I can call... So, are we good Papi? ��

Now, Last time I checked...

I think that I am still ON TOPIC... (Butt plug ordered for Papi, comic book and ear plugs for distraction)

Back, to all of my SISTERS, and their STRUGGLES with ASSTASTIC PLEASURES...

Mods? Anything?

[Slave Guinevere]

I'm curious...

Why are you asking for the mods? I was polite... I didn't say that you do not have a right to post in coed because you do and as a matter of fact... I strongly encourage it...

I just calmly broke down that on multiple occasions you have told women to take their issues to the ladies room and that as a woman, we have a right to speak here... Why is that offensive to you? It is 2024...

You even explained why women should not bring their issues to coed...because men will not learn but that would be assuming that you are speaking as their representative as a whole, with or without a cape I do not know... and are the men happy to have you as their house representative for the Greek community?

I stayed on topic...the topic is "Men trying to push /force Greek on a lass that keeps saying "No"...

Helpful ladies and hobbyists suggested that she add it to her signature line...which she did...

Then we get the men who did not care... Of course we did... And I made a post that was calm and explained why this was not nice and that just as we should respect YOUR bodies...we would also like to have our bodies respected...

Then YOU told us to take it to the kitchen with an analogy on how to behave ourselves and I jokingly replied and your answer is to call for the mods? lol 😂 😂

Is this like the lifeline "Help I've fallen and I can't get up?"

But instead...

SG has posted and I don't have a response and darnit...she posted a banal 70's song promoting free speech and I don't know what to say...SOOOO... MODS?!? LOL 😂

Remember, I didn't follow you to this thread... I like Greek... I just believe that it needs to be consensual and it should be allowed to be discussed in coed..

Are we closing the prostate pleasure thread next? Squirting threads? I have questions for Sue Nami on both of these before you pound the rtm button on both of these ... Let me get my note pad.. I'm not an expert on either of those subjects...🤗❤️

[baja22]

"I just believe that it needs to be consensual"

Is there an activity that doesn't need to be consensual? I'm still not getting this. What is so hard about blocking guys that persist? I block spam calls all day, it's not a big deal. This is like the thread about whether or not you should turn off your phone for decompression days. Maybe some providers would rather whine and create drama and draw attention to themselves than doing the very simple fixes. I'm a realist - if a provider can't handle dudes asking for extras, which will never end no matter how many PSAs are done, then maybe pursue a different line of work.

[Slave Guinevere]

"I just believe that it needs to be consensual"

Is there an activity that doesn't need to be consensual? I'm still not getting this. What is so hard about blocking guys that persist? I block spam calls all day, it's not a big deal. This is like the thread about whether or not you should turn off your phone for decompression days. Maybe some providers would rather whine and create drama and draw attention to themselves than doing the very simple fixes. I'm a realist - if a provider can't handle dudes asking for extras, which will never end no matter how many PSAs are done, then maybe pursue a different line of work.

Maybe, YOU have not noticed but I am not the WHINING type.. I am nice to a point... Then, I am a very direct and in your face sort of person...

Now, first off... You aren't the one being pressured to have a penis forced into your ass now are you? Let's keep that image in your mind now shall we?! This is the GREEK thread...

Did you READ SexyJess's opening post!?! Men are trying to force her verbally into doing Greek... Maybe, you missed those posts...maybe, you missed the rage in her posts... Do you think she is the only one? Are you that naive? Now, let's talk about coercion...

Now, let's imagine that you have also clearly spelled out your BOUNDARIES to the gentlemen and then you have these same men question your prices, your location, your activities...AGREE to these BOUNDARIES and then once you GET THERE FLIP THE SWITCH and try to FORCE THE AGENDA to what they want...

But, look at you.. Let's call it mansplaining anytime a female has to come into coed to help teach the young ladies that it is "OK" to not only set boundaries but to enforce them...

So, why am I here? Because, you guys are there whispering in their ears saying "You won't be successful if you don't post photos of your face...check Dallas coed for that thread...you need to do BB TO be successful...the list goes on and on and on"... Then you tell them they won't be able to pay rent...they are hungry or they have children to feed... I am not new... I know the games being played...

Now, theoretically, per YOU GUYS, I should not have been successful...but, I have...

I do not need this drama and I for damn sure do not want it BUT, when I started, we used to have a community where both the men and the women posted and the new girls could watch and learn...watching women like me post on the boards is a way for myself, and the other ladies, to mentor, the new girls on how to express themselves, and that it is ok, for them to respect their body, their rules and their choices...

Coming into coed and saying "No, that is not OK, gives the ladies a feeling of power in a world where oftentimes, they feel quite powerless... This world can be the most exhilarating sexual experience that a man or a woman can feel...but imit can also be the worst...learning how to handle all of the ups and downs takes a village from both sides...

So, please, do not try to come in here and try to Gaslight myself, and the other ladies, with phrases like "you can block emails or texts" because you do not do what we do.... In other words... Shut up and hop back into that kitchen right? Lol... Sometimes, the ladies and the men need express themselves in this world...I have an assistant to help me and that is a godsend but most of the ladies do not... You guys do it when the ladies nipples were not as PUFFY as you would like...lol...REAL WORLD ISSUES...LOL ��

These baby girls need to learn to handle themselves on and off the boards and if it bothers you to READ words like "consensual" and "rules"... Well, that says more about you then it does about any of us...

Have a great day!! I hope we have this little issue settled and I want you to know, that I fully support you guys whining about being fucked in the ass as much as we do!! Use A LOT OF LUBE!! ������

[Mokoa]

Mods? Anything?

Nope.

She expressed her opinion here within the rules just as you expressed yours. That is how it works here in Coed.

[Slave Guinevere]

I'll summarize my points, and hopefully that'll get them across more effectively.

Ranting here will do nothing. It won't educate those who don't care to be educated. Those who care to be educated already understand that "no means no." A more effective solution is to block the offender and post about the experience in the ladies' forum, so others are warned.

We can go on unhinged rants about what should be, or we can learn to cope with what is. The hobby has been, is and will remain the same.

For those of you who care to read about an example of ineffective communication, read on. I grew up on the first floor of an apartment building. The hallway is enclosed because the winters are harsh in Transylvania. Even cars are kept in garages because of the cold weather. The hallway has two doors: one at the front which most people used, and one at the back used by the tenants to get to the detached garages behind that apartment building. One of the tenants who lived on the fifth floor never remembered to shut the door behind him and make sure it locks. Hobos would sneak into the hallway to spend the night and would leave behind trash and excrement. For those living on the top floors, this didn't matter at all. But for those of us living on the first floor, it mattered. My father (who was a teacher and absolutely should have known better) thought that the best way to handle it would be to yell at the tenant about shutting the door. It went about as well as you would expect. Nothing changed. My father started loudly slamming the door every time he found it open. We heard it and it was supremely annoying, but likely nobody above the second floor heard more than a muffled thud. The tenant on the fifth floor likely heard nothing and couldn't care less about it. No matter how many times my mother and us kids tried to convince my father that what he was doing was ineffective, he wouldn't listen. "See, the door was locked today! It's working!" (hint, hint). He died about ten years ago convinced his useless act of loudly slamming that door made a difference. In the end, the effective solution is a badge system on a door that automatically shuts and locks. So simple!

Unhinged rants... Wow...

If I RANT...

Then TRUST ME...

You will KNOW IT...

You can't even handle the thought of a FINGER IN YOUR ASS!!LOL 😂 😂 😂

You DO NOT get to tell me, or any other woman, where we can speak as long as we are POLITE and stay on topic... So, pay attention SPARKY, because, I was being polite in the above response and now, I am going to be polite but stern...

WE, meaning the WOMEN on this board, especially SUE NAMI, already got the message that you would like us to take ALL of our posts, our opinion and our thoughts to the ladies rooms... Hell, but why, don't we take our views, back to the 50's and wrap them in a nice & neat SPERM FREE casserole? 😉

The ladies already KNOW what NO means... And, if the guys on the FIRST floor are uncomfortable with the NOISE, I've heard that you can either sound proof your living space, change your living arrangement, buy ear plugs, or HELL, since we are talking about ASSTASTIC pleasures, you can get a few BUTT PLUGS to distract you from all of the noise coming from the women on the board...who are discussing men trying to force objects into their DELICIOUS ASSES that are not INTO such activities... (The ladies and and I are here to help you..)

And just so that we are CLEAR... I am NOT concerned about where your father or any of your cronies forced their women to hide their concerns... So, if you need to go into the garage and shut the door, close it, slam it... Read your comic books... I am GOOD!! I still have my teeth... Do you? So, put on your costume, climb into your coffin and wait for this particular woman to ASK if she needs instructions on how to survive as a HO in this world because I am doing great... But, if i need a DADDY, I already have a few ATF'S in Austin that I can call... So, are we good Papi? 🤗

Now, Last time I checked...

I think that I am still ON TOPIC... (Butt plug ordered for Papi, comic book and ear plugs for distraction)

Back, to all of my SISTERS, and their STRUGGLES with ASSTASTIC PLEASURES...