Probably the most important thing for me is the provider herself. It starts there and the chemistry we have. Without this, the rest cannot compensate for it.

TCB is second. It helps take away any anxiety I have that our appt is actually going to happen and allows me to focus on what happens when I walk in that door. Being responsive is important, esp. when seeing someone new.

Everything else (incall, etc.) just adds to the experience and makes it better.

I try to be a good client and be clean, freshly showered, nails trimmed, clean clothes, fresh breath, be responsive to communication, don't make them ask for donations, bring a little gift, be punctual. All the things I'd hope the provider would do.