I just thought of another thing. If you ask for a deposit, particularly for an incall appointment, I will assume you are a scammer. If you ask for a deposit for an outcall and don't have multiple good reviews, I will assume you are a scammer.

Yes, I have been burned and the world out there is just way too nasty these days. I understand that y'all have been stood up in the past, but I have been ripped off too many times. If you can still get plenty of business by asking for a deposit, then congratulations.