This provider did the same thing to me on October 23. I sent her a message via P411 and we had everything set up for that evening, then she ghosted me. Didn't really think much of it except for the fact that she had started a post two weeks earlier on this same forum about how rude it is to NCNS. About a week later, she randomly texted me and asked if I were interested in seeing her. I did not respond, but the text seemed generic as if she were robo texting a bunch of different potential admirers. Based on her history, I was thinking about setting up another appointment, but then I see this and I'm glad I didn't. I was going to let it go, and admittedly probably should, but the fact that she did it to The Count and possibly others warranted me to respond. Anyway, hope she is ok and in a good place now.