Mental: Wit, banter, sarcasm, humor. Your brain is the most powerful sex organ
Physical: Kissing, if you greet me with a seductive smile and a (good) kiss. Ooooof

Take your time. Don't just rip off your dress and try to speedrun the date. It ain't Mario Kart lol. No one gets an award for being the quickest to get to the finish line. Journey's just as important as the destination

(Disclaimer, the following is fan fiction): I met up with a provider who gave the most amazing massage + CW with lots of teasing, edging and an achingly slow build. I literally could. not. wait. to be inside of her