Everything you said is true. I don’t expect them to remember Me Though and I would prefer they didn’t. One day I’ll be able to put this hobby behind me for good. I just thought it was a gesture of appreciation. But I guess the old saying goes. Repeat business is good enough. I suppose that will have to do. The days Of me buying the Chanel and Lois are over. ( not bragging, it’s embarrassing to me) since that worked out so well before. ( it didn’t). I guess since I don’t know much about the Asian culture for some reason I guess I figured they had a different approach about gifts not like as in something romantic but more like they felt appreciated . Doesn’t sound like there is any difference from your description. Thanks for the input