OP, I can promise you, there's a bunch of tyler guys who don't have screening issues, they're just lurkers and non-posters, which there's nothing wrong with that. You have to put in the work to find those gems on other sites, and when you find one, invite her to the board. Also, your signature might turn some local ladies off from seeing you.

Being a gentleman will get you far on those other sites. I'll admit, while living in East tx, I spent A LOT of time going down the rabbit hole, to see who was real and who was a fake or a sting. All you wanna do is bitch and complain!!

All that money you're spending in gas to go to dfw, could be going to a local gal, who just might help you open more doors to more providers