if you have never been informed/told, experienced, learned, etc. that the world of sex for money has many scammers, thieves, less than committed, low rated performers, ... then you know now.
and that it has some honest, committed, highly rated performers. just like the rest of humanity. (a guy just got convicted in texas for scammimg the payroll protection pgm for $17M !!)

i was told long ago that while venting & ranting are good for the soul, they dont help correct/eliminate the problem. so, if you have a problem, either research or ask for answers, or come up w/ possibilities.


also, unless one has documented facts/data about adult sex providers and adult sex consumers, any comment, idea, opinion is only kinda useful as it is single point research much less there is any data to back it up. (this esp applies to "reasons" / "truths" as to why some providers and consumers do what they do - from starting providing to tcb to fees to activities, etc.).

even after 20+ years and prolly more than 500 encounters w/ ~200 providers (maybec10-20 still working), any opinion i may give is so specific that it is almost useless, just an limited observation.


regardless, as a few have said, find and frequent decent providers and/or ask others for recommendations.
and share info about the no-goodnik scammy providers so others can avoid them.