I am sitting here and wonder were in San Antonio does a guy go to meet single women for friendship that are not hobbiers or escorts. I have been going to Sherlock's Baker St Pub and Grill, and no luck. I also have the problem of making that first contact, you know speaking to a woman and having that first intial conversation with the fear of being blown off or rejected right off the bat. So I post this here with the hopes of some feedback from the ladies on how to make my approach along with the guys that don't have selfesteem issues that can make conversation with a total stranger (woman). As much as I enjoy making a visit to a hobbiest for fun. It puts me at a disadvantage too. Again if any of the ladies can chime in on this I would be greatly appreciative of it.