Closing this at request of op.

I for one did not see this as a huge rant, but obviously it could have had a more genteel preface ... perhaps something like

"When you are not in your home space, always better to check signals so you fit in comfortably."

Which is why we only have our nekkid socials in very private spaces. Guys' "fig leaves" are oversized (navel to knee).

Lets all move on.