A couple of thoughts I had, after reading OP's encounter tale:
(a) I definitely don't need to be seeing anyone off STG, regardless of previous experiences or reviews. I have even met a few BSC ones on Eccie, so we can't eliminate all risks to hobbying.
(b) I suspect that the antagonist in this drama was f'd up and may have wanted some payola but didn't know how to ask.
(c) This is not my opinion but I have read post that suggested that most NBA providers have AA boyfriend or pimp who might be jealous.