all generalities are false ... including this one. but i'll throw this out. imo the best gfe/iop/ioa (illusion of affection) is available from mature ladies. i see some value in ben franklin's (not the same one that providers are fond of ... but the same one, kinda) letter to a young man (https://www.laphamsquarterly.org/ero...se-older-women). i also tend to think that ladies who value longer sessions provide the sort of session i enjoy. a lady who says things like "i enjoy kissing" and "lets cuddle beneath the blankets" gets my attention. OK ... a lady who says "put your dick in my mouth" and "i want to fuck you" also gets my attention but it's not the same thing..