My best experiences have been with LMTs who are either into the fun or extra income. Followed by AMPs. I have found that escorts who do "FBSM" tend to be light on the massage portion, and rushing kills the session! I want a solid bit of bodywork with playful teasing along the way. If she enjoys the mutual touch even better. I would never try to convert that into FS but I am definitely in favor of Os for everyone.
Oils slightly better than lotion...non-scented and please wipe us down at the conclusion...no SO here but hate sliding around on the car seat for the next few days!!!