I also totally agree with SexySammy when she said "Me personally, I don't care what's said about me in private because there's a reason they're saying it behind my back and not to my face and it says more about them, than myself and people are going to gossip."

So if you're ever faced with "gossip" from hobbyists, whether it be in person or online, just remind yourself it's easier to embrace this type of mindset rather than to continously keep on worrying yourself about what's being said about you in the LR and behind the scenes. Remember though, when you go searching for opinions on yourself, you may not always like what you find and the responses you get. Sometimes its better to leave and let be and just save yourself the trouble and heartache.

Hence another issue that can arise when you create mandles or care about what the men are saying in private.

I also don't really GAF about any WKs attacking in me in this thread either. I made my point whether anyone likes it or not.