Is it strong arming?

If something is a direct insult to me regarding service and rates, is it wrong to tell the person to fuck off until they send $100 for hurting your feelings?

I may be a bit more sensitive lately, but the question of can I have this or that and I only have that is a complete direct insult. Like, tell your mother her body is worth less.

What are some hobby insults? Should I just say "ok don't do that".

We as women work with our bodies and we undercharge greatly. We put our dignity to the side to please you. In the end, this is not a auto auction, this is my body that I love and care for. I'm loaning it to you, if my body isn't good enough for xyz, then fuck all the way off.

So my question. Is it strong arming to not take the first insult with a grain of salt. Give a 2nd chance? To me, I already feel low because you made me feel low.

What are some other direct insults. I'm clean and healthy looking, so asking about my health triggers me. I tell everyone, always assume the worst and treat people like people and with kindness.

Input please.