GREEK

[SexyJess]

I already know that I will probably get a lot of backlash on this one, but this must be said on behalf of all women / providers who have specific boundaries, who want their clients to respect those boundaries.

And first let me say that this does not go out to all the men on this board because the majority of you have enough intelligence and enough sense to read our daily ads that we Post in their entirety. Especially for those providers who make it a point to cover all bases in every single daily ad that we create that covers not only our location our menu our don'ts our pricing etc. I'm not talking about the men who respect those boundaries. As a matter of fact I would like to give a kudos to all of you who do. However there is a small percentage of you that don't read them or have zero respect for our boundaries when it comes to our menu. this rant is for The Men who can't seem to take no as an answer, and can't seem to read any daily Post from top to bottom that covers these ridiculous questions that we get a hundred times a day.

This is for the men out there who will not read our post in its entirety probably because they're excited to see that their favorite girl is available which I can't hate you for that. But it's for the men who ask their favorite provider if Greek is on the menu when in the ad it specifically states that no Greek is NOT on the menu. And then REGARDLESS OF BEING TOLD IT IS NOT ON THE MENU, they continue throughout the day to ask at another time to see if our mood changes anything. so like for instance I was asked four times today by one person if I did greek. I was asked if I would do Greek I was asked if I would do anal I was asked if we could try a butt plug and every single time I answered no.
And it's not that I don't do Greek because I do...

But I only do it in an intimate situation with my significant other. That is not something that I offer my clients because that is a very personal thing between me and my significant other. And even explaining it to that degree he still pushed and asked again if I would consider doing Greek with him. So I started to think to myself..

The more and more I think about this and this is what I offered that client that I am talking about is and I'm going to offer this to all of you gentlemen that can't seem to read an entire post and can't seem to take no for an answer that we don't do greek.. I'll tell you what. I will humor it only under one condition. The first appointment that we do you're doing greek first, and you don't get to decide the size of the object that I use, you don't get to decide how fast or slow I insert it you don't get to decide how many times I thrust it and for how long inside you. And then and only then when you have done this I will consider doing Greek for you. And the size by the way, of the object will be about the same size that your packing on a daily basis.. and no lube's not going to be used I'll spit on it. And then and only then in the NEXT appt., our second appointment, I will consider Greek with you.

Now if that sounds good, and if you're down with that go ahead and give me a call. Otherwise don't ask me again about Greek that is not my f****** specialty I don't do it with my clients. :-)

And the thing is is I asked him well why is it that it's okay for you to stick an object in my behind but I can't stick an object in yours why? Do you think it's going to be uncomfortable? Do you think it's going to hurt? Do you think it's going to make you gay? And he didn't have an answer for me. But I just want all of you homophobes to understand, is that regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay. The differences is you're a top or a bottom, If you're a guy participating in that type of intimacy.. We are not objects we are human beings trying to make money to keep a roof over our heads please do not treat us as objects that don't have a voice. Be respectful of our boundaries, and everything would be kosher and if you don't want to respect those boundaries then be prepared to have a dick in your ass that's all I'm saying and if I overspoke then f*** me, right? I don't know what to say but I had to vent and I had to say something because God damn I'm tired of having to answer the same question from these clients 20 different ways in one day. All of you that do not ask that question because you have read our "No's", thank you for not wasting my time and thank you for respecting my boundaries :-) I hope everybody has a great day and lastly if I offended anybody in the lgbtq community I apologize I didn't mean to I am just fed up with the stupid question being asked 20 f****** different ways. :-) love you all have a good night.
Moderators, please don't ban my account for this.. :-)

[knottyman]

Very long post.
BTW, do you do greek?

[Canter]

Very long post.
BTW, do you do greek?

I’m dyslexic all I read was offer & Greek

[SexyJess]

Ha! Funny fuxxer, I see.

[BigBamboo]

I stopped reading after the first sentence of her second paragraph. Definitely just a rant. Sometimes people just need to vent. Good for her.

[Slave Guinevere]

I stopped reading after the first sentence of her second paragraph. Definitely just a rant. Sometimes people just need to vent. Good for her.

I love this..❤️🤗😘

Thank you Sweetheart 😘

[MoneyManMatt]

Slave... don't I owe you a spanking for something?

[Slave Guinevere]

Slave... don't I owe you a spanking for something?

Hello Sexy Man...😎

You know... I am always in the mood for a good "Spanking"🔥😈💋

[Transylvania Count]

Perhaps this would be better suited for the ladies' private room?

I am not the person who asked you about Greek. We did schedule an appointment a few months ago, but you ghosted me the day of the appointment. We never did get to talk details.

There are quite a few things to unpack in your post.

1. Your proposed strategy of "you do Greek first" will backfire. Once I asked a lady if she offers Greek. She said that she doesn't. But then she said "I used to tell men that whatever you stick in mine, I get to stick in yours. But I had to stop that because too many men like it."
2. Answering the same question many times a day does get annoying, I agree. Perhaps adding a NO list to your signature may help. When men see "and a lot more," some of them will think "Oh, she offers Greek? BBFS?" Men are weird like that, don't you know?
3. Ranting here will not educate those who don't care to be educated. The best you can do is warn the other ladies regarding this kind of behavior, in the ladies' private room. We men have horror stories too, and that is how we handle them.
4. I believe you did offend not just the LGBTQ community, but you managed to offend the straight community as well. "regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay." Many ladies here offer Greek, and many men here enjoy Greek, myself included. Making this type of statement is not helpful and betrays a serious lack of respect for what others in the hobby enjoy.
5. You mention a significant other. You mention that you do Greek with them. Men want what they cannot have. The more they cannot have it, the more they want it. Dangling the "I only do (Greek) in an intimate situation with my significant other" carrot is not helpful. It creates resentment. And for me personally, mentioning a significant other ruins the magic. I know most of the ladies here have significant others and families, and I respect that. I just don't want to hear about it. Our time together is our time away from real life, in a make-believe world that should be free of real-world details.
6. Take a few deep breaths. You're frustrated, and for good reason. But never send out an angry email/post. Re-read it a few times. Rephrase it. Focus on the message rather than feelings. You will have significantly better results. Most people tend to disregard rants and angry words, especially from someone for whom they feel no emotional attachment.
7. Last but not least, asking the moderators not to ban your account tells me that you knew posting this is wrong but you did it anyway. Most men here want a drama-free appointment. With this type of behavior on your part, you risk being labelled BSC and be avoided in the future. I think it would be helpful to you to reach out to some of the more seasoned ladies here and ask for some suggestions on how to better cope with your frustration, because this post is not a constructive way of handling it.

I hope this is helpful to you, SexyJess. This hobby can be wonderful, but it can also be frustrating sometimes. Best of luck to you!

[Slave Guinevere]

Perhaps this would be better suited for the ladies' private room?

I am not the person who asked you about Greek. We did schedule an appointment a few months ago, but you ghosted me the day of the appointment. We never did get to talk details.

There are quite a few things to unpack in your post.

1. Your proposed strategy of "you do Greek first" will backfire. Once I asked a lady if she offers Greek. She said that she doesn't. But then she said "I used to tell men that whatever you stick in mine, I get to stick in yours. But I had to stop that because too many men like it."
2. Answering the same question many times a day does get annoying, I agree. Perhaps adding a NO list to your signature may help. When men see "and a lot more," some of them will think "Oh, she offers Greek? BBFS?" Men are weird like that, don't you know?
3. Ranting here will not educate those who don't care to be educated. The best you can do is warn the other ladies regarding this kind of behavior, in the ladies' private room. We men have horror stories too, and that is how we handle them.
4. I believe you did offend not just the LGBTQ community, but you managed to offend the straight community as well. "regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay." Many ladies here offer Greek, and many men here enjoy Greek, myself included. Making this type of statement is not helpful and betrays a serious lack of respect for what others in the hobby enjoy.
5. You mention a significant other. You mention that you do Greek with them. Men want what they cannot have. The more they cannot have it, the more they want it. Dangling the "I only do (Greek) in an intimate situation with my significant other" carrot is not helpful. It creates resentment. And for me personally, mentioning a significant other ruins the magic. I know most of the ladies here have significant others and families, and I respect that. I just don't want to hear about it. Our time together is our time away from real life, in a make-believe world that should be free of real-world details.
6. Take a few deep breaths. You're frustrated, and for good reason. But never send out an angry email/post. Re-read it a few times. Rephrase it. Focus on the message rather than feelings. You will have significantly better results. Most people tend to disregard rants and angry words, especially from someone for whom they feel no emotional attachment.
7. Last but not least, asking the moderators not to ban your account tells me that you knew posting this is wrong but you did it anyway. Most men here want a drama-free appointment. With this type of behavior on your part, you risk being labelled BSC and be avoided in the future. I think it would be helpful to you to reach out to some of the more seasoned ladies here and ask for some suggestions on how to better cope with your frustration, because this post is not a constructive way of handling it.

I hope this is helpful to you, SexyJess. This hobby can be wonderful, but it can also be frustrating sometimes. Best of luck to you!

Don't worry...

SexyJess will send the OFFENDED gentlemen to Sue Nami's Prep Course first...
Sue is a GREAT teacher..
Man gets his first prostate massage..
Sue will be smiling..
And SexyJess no longer has to WORRY about those PESKY GREEK questions again!!❤️
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[SexyJess]

Yes and this is actually the third time - I believe - you've mentioned that I ghosted you and it's as if you think that I did so on purpose.. and I mentioned even before on more than one occasion that your phone number matched very similar to another client's phone number and I got you two mistaken for one person and I also apologize for that as well and I still feel resentment in your texts to me. Furthermore I do put in every single ad and you can go back and check every one of my ads and I post daily mind you that I don't do Greek okay. Not only that the guy that was asking had not only asked me if I did Greek one time but he asked me 2 hours later if I had changed my mind 3 hours later and then proceeded to ask me if he could stick a butt plug up my ass. After I told him and after it has been said in my post I do not do greek. I don't understand why you're getting so upset about this because clearly I'm not talking to you about this I'm talking about the guys who continually asked me over and over and over again throughout the day as if something's going to change when I have specifically stated not only in my ad but is in my texts throughout the day that no I do not do greek. And no I wanted to post this for the men out there so that they can get a f****** clue that it's a waste of our time and it is a waste of energy from you and it is disrespectful to our boundaries when we are constantly pestered about something that is not on our menu so why would I just put that in the private ladies for him? That would have no bearing that would just be me venting and that's not what I'm trying to accomplish here I'm trying to accomplish getting something through to these guys that are doing this I'm trying to get them to understand that it's not acceptable. And if that offends you in any way again I apologize but please don't dwell on it like you have with me ghosting you..

[SexyJess]

Perhaps this would be better suited for the ladies' private room?

I am not the person who asked you about Greek. We did schedule an appointment a few months ago, but you ghosted me the day of the appointment. We never did get to talk details.

There are quite a few things to unpack in your post.

1. Your proposed strategy of "you do Greek first" will backfire. Once I asked a lady if she offers Greek. She said that she doesn't. But then she said "I used to tell men that whatever you stick in mine, I get to stick in yours. But I had to stop that because too many men like it."
2. Answering the same question many times a day does get annoying, I agree. Perhaps adding a NO list to your signature may help. When men see "and a lot more," some of them will think "Oh, she offers Greek? BBFS?" Men are weird like that, don't you know?
3. Ranting here will not educate those who don't care to be educated. The best you can do is warn the other ladies regarding this kind of behavior, in the ladies' private room. We men have horror stories too, and that is how we handle them.
4. I believe you did offend not just the LGBTQ community, but you managed to offend the straight community as well. "regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay." Many ladies here offer Greek, and many men here enjoy Greek, myself included. Making this type of statement is not helpful and betrays a serious lack of respect for what others in the hobby enjoy.
5. You mention a significant other. You mention that you do Greek with them. Men want what they cannot have. The more they cannot have it, the more they want it. Dangling the "I only do (Greek) in an intimate situation with my significant other" carrot is not helpful. It creates resentment. And for me personally, mentioning a significant other ruins the magic. I know most of the ladies here have significant others and families, and I respect that. I just don't want to hear about it. Our time together is our time away from real life, in a make-believe world that should be free of real-world details.
6. Take a few deep breaths. You're frustrated, and for good reason. But never send out an angry email/post. Re-read it a few times. Rephrase it. Focus on the message rather than feelings. You will have significantly better results. Most people tend to disregard rants and angry words, especially from someone for whom they feel no emotional attachment.
7. Last but not least, asking the moderators not to ban your account tells me that you knew posting this is wrong but you did it anyway. Most men here want a drama-free appointment. With this type of behavior on your part, you risk being labelled BSC and be avoided in the future. I think it would be helpful to you to reach out to some of the more seasoned ladies here and ask for some suggestions on how to better cope with your frustration, because this post is not a constructive way of handling it.

I hope this is helpful to you, SexyJess. This hobby can be wonderful, but it can also be frustrating sometimes. Best of luck to you!

Trans Count: What does me "ghosting you" 6 months ago have to do with ANYTHING Ive said here? If Im not mistaken, and Im not, this now marks the FOURTH TIME you have brought this out in the open. The first time you brought it to my attention, I sincerely apologized to you for it, yet here we are.... Let me ONCE AGAIN EXPLAIN WHAT HAPPENED> It was NOT an intentional GHOST on my behalf. Your phone number, and another persons phone number were similar. I honestly thought I was talking to one person, when apparently I was talking to two different people. It was a mistake, GET OVER IT for Gods sake. What on earth does that even have to do with this? Not a damn thing. Get over it.

1. My propposed strategy "You do Greek first" Was not a proposed strategy at all, and anyone with common sense would read that along with the rest of my rant and understand that all Im doing is passively explaining WHY I do not do GREEK with Clients. Any man would NEVER take me up on that offer if he was in his right mind. But if that was not made clear in this post, then I guess I didn't stress the POINT OF MY RANT ENOUGH. My Bad... Ill do better next time.

2. Have you actually LOOKED at my signature? No? OK, because its listed there, but I figured a lot of guys don't read the signature so I took an extra step and I ALSO add my "No's" to every single ad I place, and I place DAILY ADS DAILY!!!. Need an example? You can find a ton of them simply by searching SexyJess and taking the time to read my ads. Please, before accusing someone of not being clear in her ads, do your research. It's there, I promise.

3. RANTING HERE WILL ABSOLUTELY educate SOMEONE... Even if it isn't you, I promise, someone took away something from this post. If no one did, then my hope in humanity is lost. Maybe not all of them, but I bet I get less questions if I do Greek after this post... Oh look, I didn't have to tell ANY of my clients today that its not on the menu 3, 4 or 5 times! What do you know! It actually worked!!!. Not only that, my traffic for the day even INCREASED. That was unexpected, but a nice surprise regardless :) Why would I only post in a forum where my target audience - YOU - cant read it? The ladies of this forum and of this industry - if you want to call it that - ALREADY KNOW the challenges... YOU, obviously don't. Hence why I've posted here. I'm still trying to wrap myself around why you are so offended by it anyways, considering you aren't the one this is directed at... Either you HAVE done that in the past, or you're just looking to stir up something that literally doesn't need to be stirred up. But hey, you be you.

4. I didn't know you were a part of the LGBTQ! Heres a newsflash, so am I. Ive been a part of this community since I was a child and realized who I was. So tell me, who are you to assume that Ive offended a community that you are not a part of? OR are you? Either way, facts are facts, and although its distasteful to speak about, the fact of the matter remains. It is what it is. Again, no offense.

5. I mentioned in the original post that I enjoy Greek. That was THE VERY FIRST TIME I've ever been open and honest about what I enjoy behind closed doors. So this statement doesn't apply. It cant! Show me anywhere where I have dangled a carrot like this anywhere on this site other than RIGHT HERE... Furthermore,If you know most of the ladies have significant others and it ruins the magic for you, then what are we doing here? Just like you said, its make believe... right... so, pretend that your favorite girl is single, since its all make believe anyways. If you don't want to read about something that frustrates us, then stop clicking on the posts. I posted this to educate the few men that need it. I'm not saying all will take to it and retain this information, but I will put money on it that at least one will. and that's good enough for me.

6. "Most people disregard rants and angry words", huh? YOU DIDN'T... And what's funny is that this literally had NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU ANYWAYS, yet you still took the bait, didn't you? And the last I checked we have no emotional attachment either. But your right, most people will disregard rants... Lol... ok..

7. The only thing that will help me with my frustration, is when my boundaries are respected, and not overlooked time and time again. We want you to enjoy your time with us as well. Picking and pestering us just causes this type of reaction. The fact of the matter is - this isn't difficult. And I know its possible for a man to respect boundaries, because the majority of you do respect them. It's just the ones that cant get it through your heads that no means no.

Question for you... Why would you assume that I'm dramatic? Every client that I've had has never once complained about me being dramatic. every one of your statements here, is a random assumption that by no means has any validation here. My clients enjoy our time together. I'm sorry the opportunity for you was unsuccessful. But that doesn't give you the right to ATTEMPT to call me out because everything your saying isn't even valid. But one thing I can say, and I guarantee you this. I am more drama-free than you are. I'd put MONEY on that :) Lol.

You sir, are just LOOKING for drama. I saw that 6 months ago when you emailed me thinking I intentionally Ghosted you.. C'Mon now... get real. Accidents happen, Love.
As for your lengthy response, If it doesn't pertain to you, then stay out of it. Just like you mentioned, you were not the one who offended me. Sooooo why are you even bothering with this? Seems like a waste of time, no? Why exactly are YOU insulted? Lol. just trying to stir up shit that doesn't even pertain to this conversation. By the way, your signature offends me enough to set off a red flag that maybe ghosting you - although an accident - was a blessing in disguise.

- - - Updated - - -

Lots of men like to be pegged. Some may do it, find out they like it lol.

In the end of the day, we like to be respectful, be shown respect. And to some we are. But to many we aren't even human. We are garbage. We deal with this daily.

Don't get me wrong, God bless this industry and I like it. You take the good with the bad in any industry.

AMEN

[SexySammy]

Honestly this is the same as men blatantly asking for BB when its not offered. There will always be men who don't read ads or think there's always a price, it honestly comes with the job. I'm sure there's been other days when nobody has requested it from you so really I think it's just a coincidence. There certainly could've been a better/clearer way for you to get the point across.

"But I just want all of you homophobes to understand, is that regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay. The differences is you're a top or a bottom, If you're a guy participating in that type of intimacy.."
You know nothing about him to assume he's not a part of or supporter of the LGBTQ+ community and they certainly weren't facts but your opinion and just because you're a member and not offended, doesn't make the statements any less offensive or ignorant ijs. There's a very big and key difference in someone wanting a man to do it or a female, and has everything to do with anatomy, and absolutely nothing to do with a person automatically being "gay" for enjoying it. It's giving "I'm not racist because I have black friends", when someone makes an obviously racist statement. So I guess since your man likes to stick it in yours that means he's gay too? This is the problem when people make posts when they're still emotionally charged, you start to make contradicting statements, and the point very much does get lost in all the dramatics and ranting. First you kink shame. Then you say under no circumstances will you do/allow Greek, then you admit to it being a very intimate thing for your boyfriend and yourself, and proceed to also say you would allow it if someone let you sodamize them (when that and how folks ACTUALLY do Greek are not even close to the same). This is why it's best to make these posts after you've calmed down and can get your point across clearly.

[Adonisman]

This sure has been an entertaining thread.

I have been around these boards since day one. Yes, 1999. I started out. When most of yall were not even born yet or yall were shitting your pants watching Teletubbies.

Nothing has changed in 25 years. Guys still asking for menu items not listed, Guys pushing boundaries. Shitty TCB by Providers and so on. Providers ghosting or canceling. Guys ghosting or canceling. The gamut of everything.

All this pissing and moaning by both sides, and if anything it has gotten worse.

So you either accept this is how it is and always will be. Or move the fuck on down the road and find another job or hobby.

[SexySammy]

This sure has been an entertaining thread.

I have been around these boards since day one. Yes, 1999. I started out. When most of yall were not even born yet or yall were shitting your pants watching Teletubbies.

Nothing has changed in 25 years. Guys still asking for menu items not listed, Guys pushing boundaries. Shitty TCB by Providers and so on. Providers ghosting or canceling. Guys ghosting or canceling. The gamut of everything.

All this pissing and moaning by both sides, and if anything it has gotten worse.

So you either accept this is how it is and always will be. Or move the fuck on down the road and find another job or hobby.

Plenty of people piss and moan about their jobs, that doesn't mean they need to quit.
But she could've done so in a more constructive way to help educate some folks.