Honestly this is the same as men blatantly asking for BB when its not offered. There will always be men who don't read ads or think there's always a price, it honestly comes with the job. I'm sure there's been other days when nobody has requested it from you so really I think it's just a coincidence. There certainly could've been a better/clearer way for you to get the point across.
"But I just want all of you homophobes to understand, is that regardless if you're sticking your dick in an ass or having your ass being stuck with a dick, it's gay. The differences is you're a top or a bottom, If you're a guy participating in that type of intimacy.."
You know nothing about him to assume he's not a part of or supporter of the LGBTQ+ community and they certainly weren't facts but your opinion and just because you're a member and not offended, doesn't make the statements any less offensive or ignorant ijs. There's a very big and key difference in someone wanting a man to do it or a female, and has everything to do with anatomy, and absolutely nothing to do with a person automatically being "gay" for enjoying it. It's giving "I'm not racist because I have black friends", when someone makes an obviously racist statement. So I guess since your man likes to stick it in yours that means he's gay too? This is the problem when people make posts when they're still emotionally charged, you start to make contradicting statements, and the point very much does get lost in all the dramatics and ranting. First you kink shame. Then you say under no circumstances will you do/allow Greek, then you admit to it being a very intimate thing for your boyfriend and yourself, and proceed to also say you would allow it if someone let you sodamize them (when that and how folks ACTUALLY do Greek are not even close to the same). This is why it's best to make these posts after you've calmed down and can get your point across clearly.
Originally Posted by Adonisman
