Try working on your phobia. Remember, you're dealing with professionals, it's their job. Unless they're brand new at it, there probably isn't much they haven't heard. Sometimes they have to get an in person look at you before deciding what they will or will not do. There's a whole lot of ymmv out there. For short notice you could consider an all nude sc and get extras in the vip area. My go to used to be xtc, but it's been years since I've been there, so idk how it is now.