Good intentions....

[SexySammy]

This is probably just a great example of how different men and women behave and think. Most of us men speak the physical touch love language. Especially us hobbyists who are here seeking that connection. It leads me to believe that their offers are sincere because that is how we would like our mental day to be made better. Your love language seems to be more on the side of acts of kindness/service (I may be way off, but that's what I gather from your post). I don't see anything wrong with you replying that you are taking a day off. I think that should be respected and understood. I much rather you saying that, than simply blowing off the text. It shows that you are a good communicator. But I don't think guys are trying to take advantage of you, or being insensitive. We just think differently and think it would be a good solution to the issue. Ask any guy, a good lay fixes any problem.

A good lay may fix YOUR problems, but it doesn't work the same way with others. Especially women in this industry being touched constantly.
You also assume most men think like you, when in most of ours experience, it's the total opposite and they are indeed hinting at free play. Hell I had someone booked the other day who tried to offer to come earlier to "snuggle" beforehand, and when he was inevitably shut down, magically wound up canceling because a meeting had been moved later, so I offered for him to come earlier like he had just offered to do when he wanted to snuggle and NADA. Some men think that just because they're a decent lay or "attractive" it means we will do things for free and that's just not how this works.

[Tony.tron]

A good lay may fix YOUR problems, but it doesn't work the same way with others. Especially women in this industry being touched constantly.

That's exactly my point. That many men can view it as a legitimate solution when in fact it may not be one. Especially in the eyes of women.

I would hope that some understand that even in a generalization, nothing is absolute. I am 100% sure some of the guys don't have pure intentions. And IMO as much as we like cuddling too, the dudes you mentioned fall under the expectation and not the rule.

Yes I do assume that men think like me (in general) but not all. And I definitely believe they think more like me than like you. Way to add another thread into your "you're wrong, I'm right" list. This was meant as friendly conversation, and we all know you love to throw grenades into many of them. But smh chill out a bit.

[maxwell543]

That's exactly my point. That many men can view it as a legitimate solution when in fact it may not be one. Especially in the eyes of women.

I would hope that some understand that even in a generalization, nothing is absolute. I am 100% sure some of the guys don't have pure intentions. And IMO as much as we like cuddling too, the dudes you mentioned fall under the expectation and not the rule.

Yes I do assume that men think like me (in general) but not all. And I definitely believe they think more like me than like you. Way to add another thread into your "you're wrong, I'm right" list. This was meant as friendly conversation, and we all know you love to throw grenades into many of them. But smh chill out a bit.

Sammy was not being confrontational nor disrespectful. No need for you to inject negativity because you get triggered over a post. Please keep it civil.
Most mongers do try and get more n more. Offering good intentions is mostly an angle being played by mongers. These ladies don't want to mix biz with their rw. Respect that

[Tony.tron]

Sammy was not being confrontational nor disrespectful. No need for you to inject negativity because you get triggered over a post. Please keep it civil.
Most mongers do try and get more n more. Offering good intentions is mostly an angle being played by mongers. These ladies don't want to mix biz with their rw. Respect that

Hilarious, this ain't personal or serious. No need to bust out the shining armor there, WK. We're talking about someone who admittedly likes to stir up the threads. Just like this. And if you look at her posting history you'll see it's very obvious. I'm here for fun not arguments. So I'll leave it at that before the hall monitor gets upset.

[Anna Nikkole]

Hilarious, this ain't personal or serious. No need to bust out the shining armor there, WK. We're talking about someone who admittedly likes to stir up the threads. Just like this. And if you look at her posting history you'll see it's very obvious. I'm here for fun not arguments. So I'll leave it at that before the hall monitor gets upset.

You mean me lol. I like interesting threads. I skate the grey line. I also ruffle feathers. I say what others won't. And seems like Sammy does too. My kinda girl!

[Anna Nikkole]

It never fails. I think it's a way for the client to feel a "win", more than the sex. Like if I run a special, he wants to add xyz to the menu. And they don't understand why women get burned out, it's not from the few truly good hearted gentlemen out here.

[The Water Company ~]

It never fails.Like if I run a special, he wants to add xyz to the menu. And they don't understand why women get burned out

exactly. if you give them an inch, theyll want 10 miles. whatever a provider does its never enough. which is why my time is my time. self care. i turn my phone off. i dont take the oh2 emotional vomit with me when im away from here. PHONE OFF.

[SexySammy]

That's exactly my point. That many men can view it as a legitimate solution when in fact it may not be one. Especially in the eyes of women.

I would hope that some understand that even in a generalization, nothing is absolute. I am 100% sure some of the guys don't have pure intentions. And IMO as much as we like cuddling too, the dudes you mentioned fall under the expectation and not the rule.

Yes I do assume that men think like me (in general) but not all. And I definitely believe they think more like me than like you. Way to add another thread into your "you're wrong, I'm right" list. This was meant as friendly conversation, and we all know you love to throw grenades into many of them. But smh chill out a bit.

No... again not ALL men or even most think like you. Sex is not the answer to all your problems and I've definitely met enough to know that a lot of folks have performance issues when their head isn't right and they're beyond stressed. You're assuming everyone thinks like you.

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Sammy was not being confrontational nor disrespectful. No need for you to inject negativity because you get triggered over a post. Please keep it civil.
Most mongers do try and get more n more. Offering good intentions is mostly an angle being played by mongers. These ladies don't want to mix biz with their rw. Respect that

Someone gets it.

But honestly if you look at his posting history, he's got a knack for being like this constantly.