GFE Question

[gameface1043]

OK, so I'm new to TX but not new to the hobby by any means. Has the meaning of GFE changed since COVID or is it different in TX then it is in other southeastern states?

From my hobby experience in GA, KY, NC, SC, AL, TN and LA, GFE included kissing, oral both ways and basically a more sensual encounter then PSE. Never did it automatically include BB but in TX it seems GFE = BB.

[TinMan]

What do you mean by BB? That could be a case of miscommunication if one person means BBBJ and the other means BBFS.

[gameface1043]

BBFS

[TinMan]

Ok, so who told you Gfe = bbfs. Was it someone here? Male or female? Just one person?

[bobbyb1234]

Typically, GFE means = DFK, BBBJ, DATY, MPCFS, FIV, MSOG, IOP (Important!) for PSE, add in Greek, COF/COT (This is debatable can go either GFE/PSE) .

Most important thing about providers that do GFE, and do it very well, is the IOP and feeling refreshed afterwards. Not having an ounce of regret from seeing them or feeling rushed is important.

[gameface1043]

@TinMan - Females during the screening process. No one on here yet. Maybe I just pick the wrong dates that turn out to be all business and less on the experience. I haven't played much in TX mainly because I have been in the hobby to long to drop multiple Franklins on a starfish in bed. Just trying to get a feel for this market and what is the norm.

@bobbyb1234 - That is what it has meant in my experience. Seems to be hard to find in FW or at least get confirmation prior to confirming to a date.

[TinMan]

I’m just wondering where this whole “in Texas GFE=BBFS” thing comes from. I can believe that BBFS may be more openly discussed and requested here than other markets, but I don’t see anyone here advertising or describing in their reviews Gfe=bbfs.

From time to time you may see GFE+ or GFE++, which I suppose includes bareback (which brings up the question, what makes a ++ vs + experience?), but the definition of gfe has never really varied from what bobby describes, with minor variations depending on the person’s preferences for msog or daty. On this board (and the other Texas boards), I don’t see folks trying to redefine that particular acronym.

edit to add: your observation is correct: GFE is hard to find in FW, mainly because most of the purveyors of gfe service tend to gravitate to points further east.

[bobbyb1234]

@bobbyb1234 - That is what it has meant in my experience. Seems to be hard to find in FW or at least get confirmation prior to confirming to a date.

Your best bet is to read reviews of a provider that you'd like to see. Find the common themes of the gents experience with that provider. Bring that same energy to the encounter and you'll be fine. Don't sweat the details or fearing the bad starfish sessions, repeat with the ladies that are truly into you.

[Kendall Kain]

GFE does NOT equate to BBFS. It is about IOP. Illusion of passion? Does she make you feel seen, heard, felt? Does she kiss like she enjoys it? Is your time focused on YOU...not her phone? Do you feel rushed? GFE has not changed.
Doing research on ladies you are interested in seeing is crucial. Don't just look at reviews. Look at her posting history. That will tell you A LOT. How a lady represents herself online should be consistent.

Have fun exploring! :-*

[LadyAnastasia]

I have been seeing a flood of guys that are claiming GFE means BB. It drives me crazy because they ask for it like its a part of a car wash package and has nothing to do with my health.

[TinMan]

I have been seeing a flood of guys that are claiming GFE means BB. It drives me crazy because they ask for it like it’s a part of a car wash package and has nothing to do with my health.

lol. Tell ‘em TinMan is the arbiter of what constitutes GFE, and he says they are wrong and to stop misusing the term :D

[old school doc]

lol. Tell ‘em TinMan is the arbiter of what constitutes GFE, and he says they are wrong and to stop misusing the term :D

You go TinMan. I concur that GFE has nothing to do with BBFS. Enthusiastic kissing and enjoyment of each other's company. One of my favorite GFE experiences was with Kylie Karter Dallas. As we finished, she rolled over laughing and high fived me. Joy is rare to find

[Mayamonroe23]

OK, so I'm new to TX but not new to the hobby by any means. Has the meaning of GFE changed since COVID or is it different in TX then it is in other southeastern states?

From my hobby experience in GA, KY, NC, SC, AL, TN and LA, GFE included kissing, oral both ways and basically a more sensual encounter then PSE. Never did it automatically include BB but in TX it seems GFE = BB.

I know exactly what you're talking about lol it's like everyone defitinion is one or the other these days but you like HAVE to clarify that you're both on the same page! I think alot of misunderstanding is happening is all with the new influx of providers / hobbyist

[ahab11]

I have been seeing a flood of guys that are claiming GFE means BB. It drives me crazy because they ask for it like its a part of a car wash package and has nothing to do with my health.

LOL you always have something to say that makes my morning coffee squirt out my nose from laughing so hard.