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    Asking a provider for her height and weight

    Is asking a provider for her height and weight before you book an appointment a fair question? The reason I ask is because during the last week I showed up for two appointments and the females were much fatter than her pics so I walked. Perhaps it was my fault for not asking in the first place.

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    Seems to be a reasonable request to me. I’ve been browsing several provider posts lately that peaked my interests. So I sent PMs to several members who confirmed that very same suspicion. No surprise, they all said they were taken back by how heavy they were in person and felt misled. I look at it as a product is being sold. It should be as advertised. I would be nice about it tho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Green Eyed Shy Guy View Post
    Is asking a provider for her height and weight before you book an appointment a fair question? The reason I ask is because during the last week I showed up for two appointments and the females were much fatter than her pics so I walked. Perhaps it was my fault for not asking in the first place.
    Back when I stared using ASPD and others there was always a few who lied about their weight and or looks. However, it did not seem like it is today. With all the filters and photoshopping on everyone's phone or tablet. They can easily fool anyone and everyone. It is always best to try and find consistent reviews by verified members.

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    I post mine but personally, no I wouldn't be offended and feel it is a fair question but also something very difficult to base things on. Although I am 170lbs on the scale, I certainly don't look like I weigh that much in the slightest bit. Gotta remember muscle weighs more than fat too, not to mention the 10lb sacks of fat strapped to my chest. Height also plays a huge factor. Being 5'3" 170lbs going to look very different from someone who's 5'9" and 170lbs. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but still hurts some folks feelings and they do get offended.
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    You know, the camera adds 75 lbs

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    I would never ask a woman for her age or weight, in or out of the hobbyverse.
    But if they don’t include that information in their profiles, I probably would not schedule an appointment unless a monger I trust vouches for them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin View Post
    I would never ask a woman for her age or weight, in or out of the hobbyverse.
    But if they don’t include that information in their profiles, I probably would not schedule an appointment unless a monger I trust vouches for them.
    ^^^ This! Information is power! Do your research and you will not be disappointed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexySammy View Post
    I post mine but personally, no I wouldn't be offended and feel it is a fair question but also something very difficult to base things on. Although I am 170lbs on the scale, I certainly don't look like I weigh that much in the slightest bit. Gotta remember muscle weighs more than fat too, not to mention the 10lb sacks of fat strapped to my chest. Height also plays a huge factor. Being 5'3" 170lbs going to look very different from someone who's 5'9" and 170lbs. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, but still hurts some folks feelings and they do get offended.
    Muscle does not weigh more than fat, it also takes less space on your body. Thus why human fat makes you look chubby & obese.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigDallas View Post
    Muscle does not weigh more than fat, it also takes less space on your body. Thus why human fat makes you look chubby & obese.
    Okay yes I was half out of it yesterday lol so definitely misspoke but you knew what I meant, yes they weigh the same and it's more about how it appears and can look totally different so stats are not always the most accurate of things to go off of. If pictures added 75lbs then we wouldn't hear so many complaints about catfishing and pictures being completely outdated either. People have their preferences and that's just fine, but insulting others for being "over weight" is just rude. And again, catfishing is a completely different story but simply saying a person isn't your cup of tea is just fine and if she catfished you then that's her own fault. I honestly don't care who I piss off with this one but if you're on here false advertising pictures/rates then I'm not going to feel sorry for you. That being said, there's guys who also have some very outdated/edited LinkedIn pictures too so don't act like it's just the females doing it. I don't personally give 2 fucks what you look like but again, some females have their preferences. I've had skinnier dudes with worse hygiene then my lovely chubby ones so I don't use weight as a factor in my screening. Different strokes for different folks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adonisman View Post
    Back when I stared using ASPD and others there was always a few who lied about their weight and or looks. However, it did not seem like it is today. With all the filters and photoshopping on everyone's phone or tablet. They can easily fool anyone and everyone. It is always best to try and find consistent reviews by verified members.
    The reviews help and are better than nothing but I've found too many times they are way too forgiving about appearance out of fear of repercussions. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and see for yourself. I personally have limitations on ink, metal, and weight. I've seen ink that was a total turn off to me that others describe as "tattoos, but not distracting". Well, how is a giant tat of a human skull not distracting? How is being 50 lbs overweight curvy?

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    Did I just see STILL LOOKING running down the hotel hallway with his portable bathroom scale and a not-so petite provider chasing him?

    Ah, it brings back memories of the very "good" old eccie days when SL used roam the hotels near the V-Triangle with his portable scales tucked in his backpack.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RustyBalls View Post
    WoW!

    Did I just see STILL LOOKING running down the hotel hallway with his portable bathroom scale and a not-so petite provider chasing him?

    Ah, it brings back memories of the very "good" old eccie days when SL used roam the hotels near the V-Triangle with his portable scales tucked in his backpack.

    Too soon, too much, then please forgive.
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    It’s the Hobby. Can anything really be trusted? If I’m meeting someone new I always have a little cash in my other pocket just incase she’s not what I was expecting. I kindly reach in there, tell her thanks for her time and leave it on the dresser. If she’s totally nothing like her pics I just bale. I don’t get mad. I just move on to the next opportunity.

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