That’s exactly right. It’s the passion and intimacy. And the anticipation is always a great part of it. But, I bet if most guys were honest no matter how macho they act, they’d tell you they are looking for connection and intimacy. Feeling wanted and desired without it seemingly being staged (though we always know it is). Just a great SAFE escape.

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Thank u for being open and sharing :-)
So, let's say a girl knocks on your door then and as u open it, u get a big smile, and then the most PASSIONATE kiss you've ever had. Would that be too forward? I think passion and or intimacy is what's lacking in everyone's personal life, even for the providers. I know that anytime I enter a home, or room, I try to keep that in mind. For me, passion, unexpected passion is what gets me going! <3