lol i'm chuckling pretty hard at this. Not in a mean way but more in a "lol you are gonna learn the hard way" kinda way :)

Couple simple things for you from a strip club vet:

1. If she talked about providing THAT fast....she does it pretty regularly. The ones that are more like what you describe will take a few visits and some money to show you are serious
2. Expect to pay about double what a provider asks at minimum. Strippers can EASILY make 3k a night and not have to fuck or blow anyone, you really think they'll fuck you for 500 bucks? Nah....it's all about the benjamins for them. Unlike providers strippers are pretty shrewd with how they make money and will target "easy" marks that basically do what you did.
3. Most strippers wont sleep with you just cuz you offer money, if they do they ARE a provider. Probably 40/50% of all strippers in my experience are flat out providers. They might not be right NOW but they go in waves. If money is short for awhile they'll go full provider. If they are making good money they are only strippers.
4. the comment about only sleeping with smarter men? that's called stroking your ego and making you feel like a stud so she can test if it works and if you are susceptible to it. If you respond she knows flattery is gonna get her paid, congrats you just made the hustle list!
5. Most girls there know who fucks for money and who doesn't. It fucks with THEIR money as those girls will divert attention from them. She ain't gonna hook you up. Get in with a waitress they will hook you up if you cater a relationship with them and tip well cuz the girl will give hte waitress a cut later.
6. Almost all strippers have regulars, at least one at all times. Anyone that doesn't is a terrible stripper.

the old saying of a fool and his money are soon parted......seriously. Would advise you to treat with ultra caution and set your budget of what you want ot spend in advance. She's gonna want an EXPENSIVE dinner at the domain before anything happens probably and you probably wont score on the first date for sure or for as long as she thinks she can work you.


Lastly....and lemme be REALLY clear about this one.....do NOT go into strip clubs saying stuff like "do you know any dancers that provide". Yes it's a strip club but it's not a bordello. Many girls are gonna be offended or report you to a manager and you'll get walked out if you don't know someone. There's also alot of undercovers that used to go in. Plus...the girls talk to each other. they immediately go in teh back and they'll be like "hey that dumbass out there is....."


Anyhow, I wish you luck on this but your story is honestly a classic cliche i've heard a million times at this point and it never ends well for your wallet.