Scam - Winter Kay Jackson Visit 11/04/2021

[Basscat]

Unfortunately this is the norm rather than the exception with paying a deposit or in advance in most instances. A search on the hobby boards will pull up countless instances of this taking place. I learned the hard way myself many years ago to never pay in advance even if you have visited with the lady many times previously (Thanks for the lesson Amazing Dixie). The one who got me I had visited nearly a dozen times previously to her absconding with my payment without rendering services.

Usually the lady will try and make it out to be the clients fault in some way or have her friends come to her defense making it seem there is no way she would do such a thing. Sadly the truth is once a lady has your money there really is no reason for her to follow through with the session. The money is the only reason she is seeing you period. Once you give her that all your leverage is gone. If a girl is relatively attractive and will sleep with any dude that shows up at her door for money trust me dudes will continue to show up no matter how many threads there are about her robbing guys. Maybe guys going forward wont pay in advance but they will still show up cash in hand willing to give it to her.

Not to rub salt in a still open wound its simple to avoid by never paying upfront ever. I will still throw a girl a few bucks now and then that I have seen before but never a lot and I totally plan on getting nothing in return for it going forward. I just look at it as a gift that might get me a little better treatment down the road but I never bring it up again not even on the next visit. I show up ready to pay our normal aggreged fee and if they say "oh no you sent me 50 last week when I was in a bind" I tell them its great that they remembered but that was a gift and give them the agreed on full rate. It might be one in ten times that the girl remembers but it does happen now and then. Yes I do this and I am notoriously tight with my hobby funds lol

Either way it sucks that this happened to you but use it like I did when Amazing Dixie took me and keep it in the back of your mind anytime a girl ask for a deposit or to be paid in advance. (it seems like when they offer a discount for prebooking they are more likely to do this imho) Make it a point to never do it again and I can assure you this will be the very last time it will happen.

Ladies please dont take my post as calling anyone out or stating that you personally can not be trusted. The only person I can call out is Dixie as she did this to me personally. I am sure there are plenty of ladies who can be trusted I am just saying the only foolproof way of avoiding the same mistake is to not make it in the first place. Other than that you are opening yourself up to the chance that this will happen to you.

[Deeznutz00]

I think its a bit ridiculous that you can't post a negative review unless a date took place, so getting ripped off three hundred bucks isn't considered review worthy? How many other guys wrote a negative review about this happening only to be told "A date didn't take place so there's nothing to review." This is the main reason why I only deal in cash.

[Basscat]

Deez I didnt see anything removed from his post here. You must be talking about over on E. They will not allow alerts to be posted at all and they will remove any review that didnt actually take place to help protect the ladies who do this imho. Yet another reason to completely avoid that place. Here if this happens to you just leave a post like this in the alert section no need to make a review as this carries more weight and is viewable by everyone where the comments in a review would be hidden anyway to those who dont have verified status here or premium access over on E. On E a review of this type would be removed immediately anyways as to protect the lady who is robbing gents under the guise of "we dont allow reviews of sessions that didnt actually take place". Its really hard for a session to take place when the lady has you pay in advance then stops responding to you and keeps your money. Over on E there is absolute no recourse for when this happens since they removed the alert section. I dont even know if you can post about this in the locker room anymore over there.

I think its a bit ridiculous that you can't post a negative review unless a date took place, so getting ripped off three hundred bucks isn't considered review worthy? How many other guys wrote a negative review about this happening only to be told "A date didn't take place so there's nothing to review." This is the main reason why I only deal in cash.

[Deeznutz00]

Lol, it was on E, I posted a review about being ghosted and they didn't approve the post and stating no date took place so there was nothing to report, eff that place.

[Basscat]

Yeah that place has become a huge shithole since it the fosta/sesta changes. It was once the best most helpful hobby board around but no longer. It is now of absolutely no use whatsoever for hobby purposes. It does nothing to make the hobby safer or easier. It actually prohibits anything that could be useful but encourages users to implicate themselves in what could one day be used against them legally all the while removing anything from the site that could be used to defend those people with an entrapment defenses.

Its really suspicious if you ask me and the number one reason I would never incriminate myself there ever again.

For the life of me I can not figure out why anyone still uses it rather than come here. In all the large hobby markets this site dominates yet here hardly anyone makes use of it especially the ladies. I assure you if the ladies all started using this site to let people know where they are and what days they are working the guys would follow.

Lol, it was on E, I posted a review about being ghosted and they didn't approve the post and stating no date took place so there was nothing to report, eff that place.