BBFS..

[JessieJane]

These BBFS threads always crack me up. MANY ladies here offer it and few admit to it. Most of the guys already know this as it has been discussed many times. I dont judge anyone who chooses to offer/accept the offer. I just think its funny to watch the judgemental folks come to these threads and talk down about others when they should definitely not be judging others.

as those 50$ she shamed me threads lol.. its funny to watch huh

[The Water Company ~]

........ waiting on the Registered Male (Not Verified) handle to comment

[ck1942]

Chiming in here with a bit of hobbyverse history from the aspd.net era (1999-2010):

in which at times the mere mention of bareback anything except bj (by or about a member) could bring an infraction leading up and including a lifetime ban....

Not that plenty of BB-ing didn't go on -- it certainly did, but the subject was declared taboo by the site founder.

Note that this hobbyverse era included HIV/AIDS (which started in 1981) and became very widely known more among gay men and then spread into the SW and more general communities.

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Fast forward to the current oh2 hobbyverse era (2009 - ) in which the formerly very guarded BB commentary/knowledge has devolved into a very broad almost any information/data discussion is permitted even if not openly encouraged.

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So, concerning all of the forgoing questions, replies, opinions, and, sometimes, even maybe a few true facts:

Policy here allows open discussion of almost anything (barring outright: politics, drugs, underage, bestiality, violence and others' health data -- see FAQ, please) ....

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The real underlying issue of BBFS (in management's view) is that unless it is openly advertised (or shown in verified photos) there is rarely any absolute confirmation --- no matter how highly regarded the poster might be.

So, please be respectful in such discussion and even more so in disclosing anyone's information other than your own. Including first person reports!

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As there are too many, way too many! less-than-gentlemanly "hobbyists" who are known to use the threat of reporting BBFS to coerce ladies into accepting BBFS and those abusers have been known to compile/contribute falsehoods to BBFS lists.

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Folks, in this corner of the hobbyverse, companions and hobbyists are co-equals in the hobby.

And as such, all should always be treated with respect, even when they display a lack of respect.

[Anna Nikkole]

Everyone work how you are comfortable. If you aren't hurting anyone, you are minding your business and you are happy then I don't have a problem with other people's lives.

People in here screaming no bbfs getting that love juice from a pimp, taking their money and he is barebacking 4 of y'all. But I get it, you are the favorite *yawn*

Sad sad. Just mind your own business and make your own money and be happy. The hobby is a beautiful world without drama!

We now have car dates, lots of greek, now this. I'm definitely not surprised, but it's evolution...

[JessieJane]

If a companion offered BBFS, would it deter you from seeing her? I know I’ve seen some people who frown upon it.. And, I completely understand why it’s a risk. I myself don’t offer it. But I also have been guilty of thinking twice about a provider that does offer it. So after some thinking, I’m just curious what does it matter to any of us if one does offer that? And does it turn you on or does it turn you off? Is it something that you’re interested in but just scared to ask a provider? And I’m pretty sure a lot of providers offer it, but they don’t want to post, in fear of what The next person will say. So I’m just curious if you guys could help me out here. Like why does it matter what one does willingly with their body? And why do other people talk about it so much negatively?

Back on topic.
.. it's not something I'm even interested in... In my personal life I'm single... if I ever decided to open up like that I prob would exit from the hobby. Its a HUGE difference in relationship bb and just letting random tricks raw dog u all day. To me that's a hiv glory hole lol... ijs.

Why do ppl talk or speak so much negativity? The same reason ppl come up with wacky threads to start in coed. Lol... they are lacking something in their life. Attention !

[pumpernickel]

People in here screaming no bbfs getting that love juice from a pimp, taking their money and he is barebacking 4 of y'all. But I get it, you are the favorite *yawn*

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[JessieJane]

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Hey I like the looney Tunes... they keep it interesting and always a good laugh around here...

[everywhere]

If YOU are wearing a condom, it does not matter if she offers it to others or not. Unless it breaks, or you take it off and keep going for some reason, you aren't exposed.
Your safety is entirely up to YOU and your risk tolerance. But if you look up what real doctors say, they don't consider providers as high risk except for SW.

Now me, I don't go looking for it and aren't recommending it. I'm just saying that the discussion about it is overly dramatic.

[Chilipepper]

If you protect yourself what others do shouldn't matter

In every aspect of life - do not give your power away by trusting that others will care about you as much as you do. In the end you are all you have...

[Chilipepper]

Back on topic.
.. it's not something I'm even interested in... In my personal life I'm single... if I ever decided to open up like that I prob would exit from the hobby. Its a HUGE difference in relationship bb and just letting random tricks raw dog u all day. To me that's a hiv glory hole lol... ijs.

Why do ppl talk or speak so much negativity? The same reason ppl come up with wacky threads to start in coed. Lol... they are lacking something in their life. Attention !

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[Anna Nikkole]

If you protect yourself what others do shouldn't matter

This is 100.

I have wondered in my years as a provider the number of + men I have slept with. It's a fucked up thought, but it's a real thought. And yes we all have (probably or most likely because we aren't committed to any of these gentlemen and cannot be for sure where their weenies have been). But many years later I'm GFE and I'm all good. So I hope and wish and pray good health for everyone in the hobby

[JessieJane]

If YOU are wearing a condom, it does not matter if she offers it to others or not. Unless it breaks, or you take it off and keep going for some reason, you aren't exposed.
Your safety is entirely up to YOU and your risk tolerance. But if you look up what real doctors say, they don't consider providers as high risk except for SW.

Now me, I don't go looking for it and aren't recommending it. I'm just saying that the discussion about it is overly dramatic.

Exactly.

Honestly threads like this are just another form of advertising....

[Alyssa XOXO]

Still relevant.

[richard fitzwell]

Everyone is bare backing someone. It could be a husband, a wife, a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Just do what you are the most comfortable with.
People pick their own poisons.

100% factual!! Best response and simplest answer!

[Warpt]

100% factual!! Best response and simplest answer!

Correct. You don't know that your wife, GF, SO, Pimp, Husband isn't getting or giving creampies behind your back.
Just be clean, ask the ladies to be clean and do your thing.
If you fear those who do BBFS, this is not the hobby for you.
Take up golf, but don't fuck the lady golfers.