stealing some common sense rules from the Houston newbie thread
LADIES: NO ADS. NO RATES. NO SERVICES. NO SOLICITATION. NO CONTACT INFO UNLESS ALREADY IN YOUR SIGNATURE LINE. Companions, please just come in and state that you are newbie friendly, incall/outcall status and a general location, and mention your screening expectations, if you so desire. This can include lead time and how you wish to be contacted initially, as well as how long following an appointment you're willing to give a reference. Gents can communicate with you directly for anything else. If you're from out of town and just visiting, say so.

GENTLEMEN: NO THIRD-PARTY SUGGESTIONS. Let the ladies themselves note their newbie-willingness. EXPECT TO BE SCREENED. How each lusty lass goes about this is completely up to her, but please try to be cooperative and polite in this era of Hobby uncertainty. BE PATIENT AND REASONABLE. Screening takes time, and mutual scheduling can be tricky. Make sure that you give companions adequate opportunity in advance to do what they need to. Short-notice sensual sessions may not be practical for newbies. THIS ISN'T AN ISO FEATURE. Save specific requests and questions for PMs or more appropriate forums.