I've read threads in a few forums on sites such eccie & this asking providers what makes a client good/bad. The answers vary, but the main sentiment seems to be that as long as they're treated with respect, other factors(performance,size,etc) don't matter. When I joined eccie a few years ago it was my 1st foray into the on-line hobby community. After messaging back & forth, my 1st 'playmate' was a compassionate, sweet, independent older blonde woman who hosted me in her lovely new home. She offered me a beverage and treated me like an old friend, sensed my nervousness and put me at ease. She allowed for pacing throughout the entire session, never clock-watching, reading my body language & made my needs top priority. Most importantly though, despite the hobby being the catalyst for us meeting & despite the age difference between us, throughout it all from the greeting 2 'the deed' 2 the goodbyes, she approached our session as if I was a person, and not a walking dollar. That meeting was followed up with a 2nd and hopefully there will be many more in the future and with that I'd like to pay homage to top-notch provider & good Friend Ms. Melissa Madyson. You're always a beacon of positivity and support in a sometimes negative community. Don't ever change.