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    I think that this problem exists because of the ladies from CL and other sites. I know from experience here that the ladies of ASPD are what they advertise and with a little recon you can get the info needed to make a wise choice. Of course we all are going to take the chance now and then from the other sites due to curiosity and a change of scenery. But your best bet is to work with the ladies we have here.
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    Woody,
    You've got to be kidding. A different girl shows for the appointment and he should fork over a hundred. No fucking way. If she is not the girl in the picture and he does not want to proceed with the appointment he owes ZERO. If a provider falsely advertizes herself by posting fake pics or by description then she is taking the risk of a canceled appointment and IMO should pay the hobbyist for his time and gas.

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (T-time @ Mar 24 2009, 03:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    Woody,
    You&#39;ve got to be kidding. A different girl shows for the appointment and he should fork over a hundred. No fucking way. If she is not the girl in the picture and he does not want to proceed with the appointment he owes ZERO. If a provider falsely advertizes herself by posting fake pics or by description then she is taking the risk of a canceled appointment and IMO should pay the hobbyist for his time and gas.[/b]

    You&#39;ve got to look at it from both points of view. If the provider has mis-represented or mis-advertised you rightfully should back out at the beginning. But if you decide to go ahead and "accept" the appointment by taking part you should carry through with it.

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (T-time @ Mar 24 2009, 03:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    Woody,
    You&#39;ve got to be kidding. A different girl shows for the appointment and he should fork over a hundred. No fucking way. If she is not the girl in the picture and he does not want to proceed with the appointment he owes ZERO. If a provider falsely advertizes herself by posting fake pics or by description then she is taking the risk of a canceled appointment and IMO should pay the hobbyist for his time and gas.[/b]
    It&#39;s your call, but its sort of like driving down a highway and a guy pulls right in front of you, then you shoot the finger at him, get gets out and blows you head off with a gun, now was it worth it for you to shoot the finger? A hundred dollars is just not worth the hassle of someone going f..king postal...drawing attention in a public area or non-public area. But the amount is your choice, twenty, five, ten, but the hundred is what I would do. And if you think a hundred is going to kill you in the pocket, then you need to get a new hobby like checkers.






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    I agree that if you decide to proceed the deal is made but if you open the door and are met with by a different girl you now have the option to walk away without any payment to the provider.


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    My comment above getting a new hobby like checkers was out of line......please accept my apologies.....

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    Woody, I just want to be sure I understand you. A girl claims to be 5&#39;2" and 110 lbs, blond hair blue eyes, 34-24-34. You show up and she&#39;s 175 lbs you&#39;re going to give her a hundred bucks. XXXXXXXXXXXXXX


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    At the beginning of the appt....say the first 5 minutes, you should get a feel for things. If you are not happy with her appearance, bow out at the beginning. If you decide to go for it, that&#39;s YOUR choice. Make your choice immediately...go with your gut if you feel something is awry.

    If you decide to bow out 20 minutes into the appt., that&#39; okay and once again, it&#39;s YOUR choice. Even if it&#39;s her fault and she doesn&#39;t provide what she states. That is a lesson learned for you. You should have researched better. If there wasn&#39;t a lot of info. on her and you were one of the first to TOFFT, then it&#39;s up to you to review for your fellow buds to learn from.

    I don&#39;t think after a half hour, you should be requesting your money back. It was YOUR decision to stay. I feel bad that she lied or is not giving you what you wanted. But you scheduled her for her time. She spent a half hour with you (before you decided to leave)...whether it was a shi*tty date or not, is not the point.

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    Have to agree with ESCG. If the disappointment is that great, the sooner you cut it off the better. And there is always a review to alert the community that "X" isn&#39;t as she advertises herself. I really think it&#39;s asking for drama to quit in the middle of a session and ask for money back.

    That said, one of my favorites (since departed) in SA turned out to be much heavier than her photos indicated. I remember being disappointed at the first sight of her, but we got to talking and . . . . . and she did become a favorite.

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