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    Woody, I just want to be sure I understand you. A girl claims to be 5'2" and 110 lbs, blond hair blue eyes, 34-24-34. You show up and she's 175 lbs you're going to give her a hundred bucks. XXXXXXXXXXXXXX


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    At the beginning of the appt....say the first 5 minutes, you should get a feel for things. If you are not happy with her appearance, bow out at the beginning. If you decide to go for it, that's YOUR choice. Make your choice immediately...go with your gut if you feel something is awry.

    If you decide to bow out 20 minutes into the appt., that' okay and once again, it's YOUR choice. Even if it's her fault and she doesn't provide what she states. That is a lesson learned for you. You should have researched better. If there wasn't a lot of info. on her and you were one of the first to TOFFT, then it's up to you to review for your fellow buds to learn from.

    I don't think after a half hour, you should be requesting your money back. It was YOUR decision to stay. I feel bad that she lied or is not giving you what you wanted. But you scheduled her for her time. She spent a half hour with you (before you decided to leave)...whether it was a shi*tty date or not, is not the point.

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    Have to agree with ESCG. If the disappointment is that great, the sooner you cut it off the better. And there is always a review to alert the community that "X" isn't as she advertises herself. I really think it's asking for drama to quit in the middle of a session and ask for money back.

    That said, one of my favorites (since departed) in SA turned out to be much heavier than her photos indicated. I remember being disappointed at the first sight of her, but we got to talking and . . . . . and she did become a favorite.

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    I guess the point is this. In the first case mentioned, being already well into things by the time the fake intercourse was attempted, she was obviously bat-shit nutty, but you're right...That amount of drama is not worth a few hundred dollars but dammit, I didn't feel right leaving her with a few hundred bucks and knowing she had gotten the better of me. In the second case, this is a very well known agency here in Austin with a good reputation which is why I gave her the benefit of the doubt in spite of the fact it was not the same gal in the photos. Mind you, she was cute it was only the service which was a huge dissapointment.

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    You have every right to bow out if it's not what was advertised. Giving a cancellation fee is up to you, do you want the potential drama in the parking lot or not? How much it that worth to you?

    However once you pay your money, that's it, no refunds, you made the decision to stay and take your clothes off. Leave early if you want, that's why they call it TOFTT. Every new encounter has the potential to be a wonderful experience or a TOFTT experience. That's part of the excitement. Do you go to Vegas expecting to win everytime?

    If you don't want to TOFTT then do more research up front and get to know a few other fellas that have similiar tastes and trade referrals.

    my .02 happy hunting
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    You can't always belive what you read on this board or any
    other board. You can research all you want and some times
    it just doesnt work out. I have used a couple of known good
    agencies and always had a great time, the next time I called
    the lady that came over had no clue what to do, and was not
    interested in being there.

    First words out of her mouth were"where's my money"? I should
    have asked her to leave right there, you know little head won out.
    It was the biggest waste of money spent. No longer use that agency.

    I think that escg said it best. Nothing wrong with backing out
    if things are not right.

    We all have learned some hard lessions in this hobby.

    Rocker

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    I have to agree with those that say "screen, screen, screen." If there are no reviews, post an inquiry here...maybe someone has seen her and give you accurate feedback. But not all feedback is accurate. So, if you decide to see someone absent good research, you really are blowing your wad. You might get lucky w/ a good provider, but mostly, the good providers reps get ahead of them and we all know who they are. You might decide to TOFTT. If so, let us know so we can appreciate your research. But good consistent reviews on any of the boards is the only way to play the odds. In the end, everything we do in the hobby is a risk--from meeting providers to getting caught.

    In answer to your quest, I don't think it is good form to back out except in the 1st 5 minutes or so. You make a date, agree to the cost of companionship. You should live up to the agreement.

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    Screen screen screen is a given...common sense so case closed there. Given the board's been down for such a long time I figured a well-known agency with a good reputation would be a fairly safe bet. Regardless, I take full responsibilty for that one and an appropriate review will be given when the site is completely back up. Let's go back to the original psycho who tried to substitute her hand for her vagina thinking I wouldn't notice...It's a given she's nuts but what do you consider to be appropriate action in this case? What would you do in that situation?

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Opium89 @ Mar 24 2009, 07:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    ...Let&#39;s go back to the original psycho who tried to substitute her hand for her vagina thinking I wouldn&#39;t notice...It&#39;s a given she&#39;s nuts but what do you consider to be appropriate action in this case? What would you do in that situation?[/b]
    If that&#39;s the only problem that came up, probably just "catch" her on it and question it. But if that&#39;s the only problem that came up, no need to do anything drastic. You just got shafted--that&#39;s all. Too bad SHE didn&#39;t get shafted. I&#39;m sure she would have enjoyed it.

    If it&#39;s not the only trick she tried, perhaps milk your time for all it&#39;s worth. Work it Work it Work it. Maybe also say when she won&#39;t give you anything you ask for (which she supposedly advertises)..."hmmm, do you really want &#39;hand job&#39; &#39;no kissing, etc.&#39; in your review? Because if so, continue on....I&#39;m sure this will look really good for your business once the review is out." See if that changes her attitude. Or you could just come out point blank and ask her, "you advertise certain services, yet you&#39;re not providing any of them today--can I ask why that is?" (And see if she blames it on your hygiene or just because she isn&#39;t feeling well or whatever." Then maybe (depending on her answer), give the comment above in blue afterward if you&#39;re not satisfied with her answer. I suppose it doesn&#39;t hurt to put her on the spot. You do have the right to know if it&#39;s you or her.

    But be prepared, for she might just end the visit herself....and then you don&#39;t get any kind of handjob. So it&#39;s all in the way you present the statements. Be super innocent, sound sincerely interested in the answer and sweet about it.

    Actually, it wasn&#39;t a handjob, right? It was a hand ACTING job...pretending to be a Va-jay-jay, right?

    BTW, I want to give props out to all those before my previous post who posted the same thing about OKAY TO BOW OUT but at the beginning who didn&#39;t get the comments on their posts like mine did. I didn&#39;t even see those posts when I posted my comments. I guess we were all just thinking the same thing.

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Opium89 @ Mar 24 2009, 01:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    More recently, I saw a agency provider who I immediately knew was not as advertised, but cute all the same, and was clearly advertised as a "GFE" provider. During introductions, she wiped her hand, appearing disgusted at the very thought of being touched. This immediately put me on guard. Well sure enough, during the session she refused to kiss LFK or DFK, no DATY, no BBBJ, hardly any touching and was rushing me along like an assembly line. 30 minutes in to our hour long appointment, I made myself finish and get the hell out of there, $300 poorer. Now, I consider myself a decent looking fellow for being late 30&#39;s with barely 20 extra pounds and always show up clean and fresh for an appointment. I have had very good appointments with other well reviewed providers in the past so I am confident it&#39;s not me.[/b]

    I know this may sound simplistic but did you bring it up to the agency? I am assuming this wasn&#39;t with us as we simply don&#39;t have many reviews. That being said, I know that if a client is disappointed in any way, we would rather know about it and be in a position to correct it with the client than find out down the road - the road littered with many unhappy clients. I can&#39;t tell you if that is the correct answer or not, but it definitely seems like it would make sense to at least bring it up. If the agency isn&#39;t willing to handle the matter with you, you know to move on to a different company or any of the amazing independents.

    Just my thoughts.

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    When I found myself in this situation a couple of time before deciding to go with ASPD providers exclusively, I basically just toughed it out to the end and got out, leaving my cash behind and taking it as an expensive lesson. I don&#39;t do drama, certainly not in an environment I am unsure of.

    One case the provider indicated FS during initial discussions but wound up being just a rub and a tug. That was even bad because of bad lube basically e=wearing me out.

    The other was similar setup that wound up being much larger and undesirable with a bad incall. I should have left immediately, but the littel head was being stupid, and as you know you can&#39;t fix stupid. Wound up as a rub and a tug as well, though more successful than the previous one. I slipped out the door as quickly as I could.

    My next adventure was with a provider who introduced me to ASPD and I haven&#39;t had a bad experience since.

    It is my recommendation that you not venture off the reservation unless you are willing to take the hit.

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    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (charlestudor2005 @ Mar 24 2009, 07:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    In answer to your quest, I don&#39;t think it is good form to back out except in the 1st 5 minutes or so. You make a date, agree to the cost of companionship. You should live up to the agreement.[/b]
    I agree with charles. I think it&#39;s acceptable to bow out within the first 5 min of walking thru the door.
    It&#39;s also your choice to compensate or not if you do not stay for the session.
    You&#39;ve gotten some great advice on here & I wish I could provide more, but it seems like everyone has beat me to it.
    If the provider has a website look at ALL the information provides & pay attention to her reviews, etiquette & FAQs page.
    If she doesn&#39;t have a website & you can&#39;t find any info on her, it might be wise to pass on her.
    Good Luck sweetie & hope your next encounter is fabulous ^_^

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    No, it wasn&#39;t you folks. It&#39;s an agency that&#39;s been around for a few years now and is quite well known on this board. I previously explained how I handled it by calling the proprietor who offered me another session with another gal with some no charge extra time. Like I said previously, I won&#39;t be fooled twice and wasn&#39;t looking to get something out of them for my trouble so I passed. Just wanted to express my dissatisfaction and move on. Curious though, what would you do in an attempt to correct it? I imagine that as an agency, your gals are expected to perform at a certain level of service and this is all discussed well in advance of sending them out to meet your clients. It appears in this case no such expectation existed which is why I won&#39;t be using them again. Between the poor service and phony photos, I can&#39;t imagine anything they could do to bring me back as a client. Honestly, if it was just an isolated case of one gal performing badly I might reconsider, but false advertising, whether she was good looking or not is enough to keep me away for good.


    <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LoneStarElite @ Mar 24 2009, 08:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>
    I know this may sound simplistic but did you bring it up to the agency? I am assuming this wasn&#39;t with us as we simply don&#39;t have many reviews. That being said, I know that if a client is disappointed in any way, we would rather know about it and be in a position to correct it with the client than find out down the road - the road littered with many unhappy clients. I can&#39;t tell you if that is the correct answer or not, but it definitely seems like it would make sense to at least bring it up. If the agency isn&#39;t willing to handle the matter with you, you know to move on to a different company or any of the amazing independents.

    Just my thoughts.[/b]

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