from a provider or my pov, i think if when you get there she isnt quite what you wanted, its okay to bow out. I think this is good advise for all of us, she maybe disappointed and even a little angry, but she'll get over it and you'll avoid all the drama. As someone else said, I believe it was Ralphey Boy invest some time, do some homework, screen as much as you can, before you invest your $$$$$!





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