Originally Posted by
Cuirassier1812
You 100% correct about acronyms. They are a handy shorthand and time saving device, nothing more. Any one who thinks they create anything like " plausible deniability " is fooling themselves. In court it would go something like this:
Prosecutor- So you previously testified that the defendant used the term "FIP" in his text exchange with your undercover officer, asking if that would be included. What does that mean?
Officer- In my training and experience, amongst the community of prostitutes and their clients, the acronym "FIP" is short for "finger in p---y". This indicated that the defendant was asking if he would be permitted to digitally penetrate the person he believed to be a prostitute."
Prosecutor- Thank you officer. No further questions.
And that is going to be absolutely admissible in court and is going to be damning in the mind of a jury. So, in my mind, I can absolutely understand why a Hobby Lady would regard such acronyms as "explicit talk", especially with a stranger. Play it safe folks.
Hell, I tend to avoid explicit talk even when texting ladies I have a good standing relationship with. If I DO talk about sex its always after the fact and I try to word it as it it were a non-commercial act as part of a legitimate girlfriend situation.
Does that make sense?