RW Fantasy

I've noticed that hobbying has slowed down considerably and lately I've been fantasizing about reaching
out to a former co-worker and offering her 10 benjis for a couple of hours... which is above average for SA rates.

I've never done something like this before. I'm pretty sure she has no idea I like her, I used to be
her supervisor and knew I shouldn't cross the line (she quit roughly a year ago for a better paying job).

We've spoken maybe 2-3 times in the past year (just as friends)... how's it going, etc.

I know she's in a relationship, but not married.

I understand it's completely unpredictable and depends on each person... but just how bad an idea is this?

(My intuition tells me that it's no more than 20% likely that she'll agree... if she says no, it would be so embarrassing
and she'll likely tell people we both know).

Thanks for your advice.

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I highly don’t recommend that!

Thanks, I know it's a terrible idea lol, extremely unlikely I will move forward with it.

Please report back to us..thanks and good luck.

I did the same to a coworker and it worked, but she got cold feet at the end. It’s how you approach the subject. Don’t just go out there and ask her for it. Start the conversation with something like, I wish I had a sugar momma to pay for my things. Then if they say they wish they had a sugar daddy, that’s when you make your move. Good luck

You could direct this kind of fantasy towards a high-end provider that specializes in making fantasies come true. For a grand they might even go talk to your fantasy co-worker girl and get her to participate in a videotaped scene. Heck its worth a shot, and maybe you can share the video with everyone. I'm rooting for you Richardscott, don't forget the camera.

I would feel it out first. You said you have talked to her a few times in a year. I would tell her you would love to see her again and ask her to lunch to talk about old times. Throw some lines out to see if she is committed to the guy 100%. You never know, she may be willing. You may not even have to pay… lol

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