the tale of the tape may not be my friend
i want honesty in the pics. ladies (to me, anyway) have significant latitude in height, weight, and age. back in dfw (on eccie) i can recall writing a review of a visiting lady who clearly did not match her age in the profile. so in the review (which was positive in every regard) in the age block i put what she had in her profile but added "provider years". i guess it's fair to have provider weight, etc, and "john" inches. pics, reviews, everything can be manipulated
there are other things which may be more important during a session; personality, skiils, attitude. everybody has a list and the longer they think about it, the longer the list becomes. three of the best sessions i have had were with ladies who described themselves as bbw. another great session award goes to a lady over 50. not that i seek out bbw or over 50 ladies. but i'm not going to miss out on a good thing because there has been a "parameter infraction". btw, i have hobbied a long time .. imo, jade rose spent more effort preparing her appearance for our sessions than any other lady i can think of, and she dazzled me. this was several years ago and she advertised as bbw ... wonderful session! i was attracted to her attitude and personna (and hot ads ... nurse costume comes to mind). i'm glad i didn't let the bbw label put me off.
i can understand having an ideal and focusing on a standard. if someone misleads or deceives, it can detract or even shatter expectations or the experience as a whole. so i would suggest, taking your time in selection. read reviews. yes .. some reviews can mislead, too ... and sometimes there is honest difference of opinion or different preference .. so collect data and take your time. pay special attention to reviewers whose tastes seem to mirror your own.
communicate! make your preferences clearly known and ask, "do you think we would enjoy time together?" don't rely on "the tale of the tape" and don't hurry the process. i have had some delightful experiences with ladies who may have been on the wrong side of someone's "standard". and these ladies, i regard them as having generous and relaxed attitudes. and i'm grateful for that