middle of night contact

don't do it. it is rude AF. no one wants a call or text at 4 am. IF you want to book a woman awake in the middle of night, arrange it in advance and don't be contacting random women out of desperation at 4 am. That is why I have hours on my ads, every ad everywhere. I just block the middle of night guys because if they are that rude and thoughtless, we are not a good match. It amazes me how many guys do this. if any woman likes this time to work, make it known and advertise that so these night owls will leave the rest of us alone. Also, how can anyone even check references at night?

Another big reason I don't post my number lol I couldn't stand this shit. For a little while I'd work until midnight but honestly most folks contacting at those hours are drunk and drunk dick is NO fun. They're not thinking about respect at that hour. Very rarely is it the 3rd shift guys and even they have the decency to wait until they get off work (after 7am).
Granted, these days my insomnia has me up every few hours so I usually scroll through phone for a minute before laying back down. So you may get a reference request response from me then occasionally. But some folks don't check references either so they may just be winging it or verifying other ways.

I put my phone on "do not disturb" while I'm sleeping at night... the alarm still works fine also in this mode...

A'Man

thanks Aman I do that too, used to not be able to due to family emergency needs but now they all died so I can do it. I try to remember but forget sometimes. last night I remembered, the call came in at 4am and it was blocked but I saw it today. just thought i'd mention these sort of callers and texters are automatically blocked forever for being rude and clueless.

OH2 needs a “like” button…. :-)

A’Man

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Originally Posted by Anandaman

OH2 needs a “like” button…. :-)

A’Man

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Agree … wanted to use one more than once. Now, for example

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Originally Posted by Sue Nami

don't do it. it is rude AF. no one wants a call or text at 4 am.

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Inconsiderate is the nicest word I can come up with in addressing this. Some people just put their needs above everything else. I hope you replied back with a scathing word or two.

If you get the late night itch, look for ladies posting at that hour of the day….

I get them too. My phone is on silent so it doesn’t bother me. I figure they are texting lady after lady until they find someone. Maybe some sites need an “up late’ button.