Traffic sucks, I'll be a little late

What does that mean to you? To me I thought ok, 15 minutes. I should have known better. Especially since this gentleman thought screening with a non verified handle was a thing. Finally he screened to my liking and as he was on his way I got the text "gonna be a little late, traffic sucks".

He meant 3 hours late, like 15 after I texted "eta?". 3 hours later. That is not traffic, that is something else. But I never asked so ok instead of 6 it will be 6:15. I just assumed traffic makes people 15-20 minutes late. So I missed what could had been a good appointment thinking a little late was a few minutes.

What do you think. I did hand this guy username Longhorn Lover19 his ass. And I don't think he's a dangerous person, but I do think he is green to the hobby. And the apology wasn't met with anything except he asked again to see me after 9pm, ummm no. You will not have me waiting for you again.

I'm just making general hobby conversation, and to speak on what could have been my fault, to ask "what is a little late". I definitely understand why women get deposits, I do on some occasions.

Have a wonderful rest of your weekend.

I've personally never heard 3 hours later being a little late. Prime example of time wasting. Poor time management it happens for hobbyists and companions.

Who knows what happened. But that could've been a slot for another hobbyist that could've actually made it to see you.

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Originally Posted by GeorgeDRII

I've personally never heard 3 hours later being a little late. Prime example of time wasting. Poor time management it happens for hobbyists and companions.

Who knows what happened. But that could've been a slot for another hobbyist that could've actually made it to see you.

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Yes. The guy offered me nothing. People don't understand that bonehead moves cost us hundreds of dollars. This guy is a example. 3 hours later is a whole cancelation. I hope his next session is horrible and she gets a deposit from him.

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Originally Posted by Anna Nikkole

Yes. The guy offered me nothing. People don't understand that bonehead moves cost us hundreds of dollars. This guy is a example. 3 hours later is a whole cancelation. I hope his next session is horrible and she gets a deposit from him.

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May i suggest that you have cancelation fees for the ones who totally miss the mark. But still want to see you again

15 mins is a little especially when it comes to traffic...even though Austin traffick sucks 3 hours later is not just a little late but a reschedule.
I like to check the traffic apps to see how bad the traffic actually is and will wait patiently if there truly is bad traffic but not hours

I always ask the ladies approximate location and then use my driving app to calculate the driving time, then add 15 minutes. I’d rather chill at a 7-11 for a while than be late.

3 hours late is rude, it's disrespectful. It's like a whole other appointment. The guy still wanted to see me. I'm the type that I don't want to be anything but kind to anyone. So I refused.

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Originally Posted by risn2theoccasion2

I always ask the ladies approximate location and then use my driving app to calculate the driving time, then add 15 minutes. I’d rather chill at a 7-11 for a while than be late.

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I'm a firm believer in the saying, "If you're early, you're on time. If you're on time, you're late. If you're late, it is unforgivable." And I don't mean come 20mins early and sit in front of my incall either, but close enough to not fuck it up in anyway. Some people are just prone to always being late, even in their RW lives, to everything. And others who can't stand being late. I'm one of the 2nd ones lol I don't like having folks waiting on me and always communicate if something does come up.

IMHO, more than 30 minutes late is a reschedule. Fifteen minutes is sometimes not enough as traffic tends to be unpredictable.

I remember getting a text from a lady on this site about her being late because of traffic. Instead of getting pushy/angry, I found an ice cream shop near her incall and had a little dessert before my main dessert. The lady is already late. Being pushy won't help and could make your session less than ideal. But being perpetually late, ladies or admirers, will hurt your reputation and will result in issues scheduling future appointments.

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Originally Posted by Transylvania Count

IMHO, more than 30 minutes late is a reschedule. Fifteen minutes is sometimes not enough as traffic tends to be unpredictable.

I remember getting a text from a lady on this site about her being late because of traffic. Instead of getting pushy/angry, I found an ice cream shop near her incall and had a little dessert before my main dessert. The lady is already late. Being pushy won't help and could make your session less than ideal. But being perpetually late, ladies or admirers, will hurt your reputation and will result in issues scheduling future appointments.

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It's only respectful to keep communication. Sometimes things happen. 3 hours is a whole cancel. And send a little something for screwing someone over wasting their time.